Intent and Baby Gender

I am a mother of four in my mid 30′s and I have been told that I have some psychic abilities, mainly psychometry, paranormal, and lately remote viewing. Things come to me in the form of pictures in my mind, feelings and impressions, and sometimes sounds. I typically get them when asked to focus on specific objects or events. I clear my mind, think of the question or object and this blog is an example of what I get. This blog is a way for me to organize all my thoughts. Q. I read somewhere that children choose their parents before incarnation. Is it possible that parents can ask for a specific gender to be born? If yes, how can one do so?
A.  I first get this is much more complex than a simple yes or no- so let me explain…

In some instances you can choose if your baby is a boy or girl- You can will it through intent.  I see this working similar to the Law of Attraction- you visualize it, feel it and see it happening.  There are no “if” or “wishing” statement, but more absolute statements that feel like a mantra you say to yourself saying “I love this healthy baby boy/girl” or you have images of your baby.  

Also, don’t focus on what you do not want.  I see an image of a woman during ancient times fearing she would have a daughter that would be killed because the boys were what was wanted to fight wars.  She was scared and thought about “not having a girl,” and she ended up having a girl, because that was the energy she put out.

BUT, there is also a universal element involved too.  What I mean by this is if in your life you have a lesson, or purpose that involves a gender specific child, you will get what you need to learn and grow through that experience.  Then I get an example coming forward that you may be someone who doesn’t accept homosexuality- you may have a boy that is a homosexual as a way for you to learn and grow through experience, as well as love and nurture your child that is different that your original set of ideals.  You both learn, grow, expand and become more evolved.

Q.  What if you wish something that you do not get?  Does visualizing and putting intent toward a boy/girl and you get the opposite, effect the baby?
A.  I get the the universe (above all) values love- it creates some of the highest vibrations.  If you love and have gratitude for the life you are given, the baby will be in the best possible state of being.

And that is all I have for this reading.  Thank you.