Everybody is making himself look, in every possible way, like somebody special.
You are talking about your suffering and somebody says, “It is nothing.” You will be hurt, you will not like this response. You were telling such a great story; you were opening your wounds and that man said, “This is nothing. You should know my suffering.”
Suffering also becomes a support to your ego. A man without suffering, without pain, without any misery – how can he manage his ego? He won't have any props for the ego.