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Chapter 14: How to Deal with a 21st Century Woman--You call yourself a man?

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 By Frosty Wooldridge

 

 

               “You must be who you really are, then do what you need to do, in order

       to have what you want.”

                                                                                        Margaret Young

 

          It’s crazy out there.  Every time you turn around, Ann ­Landers gets a letter telling her what…”a jerk my boyfriend­ or husband is and that he didn’t mow the lawn or take out the­ garbage like it said in the marriage manual…worst of all, he­ didn’t bring home any flowers last week for my cat’s birthday.”

          Women love to call men “names” but never give it a second­ thought when they bombard us with PMS, hate our buddies, or want ­us to show our feminine side more.

          At some point, we men have to take a stand.  We like our ­friends and we need to spend time with them.  We can’t be with a ­woman all the time, because, frankly, it’s more fun playing ­tennis and racquetball or go skiing with buddies who can keep up­ with us or play at our level.  Who else can go out with us on a­ drinking night to watch a hockey game and curse and tell jokes. ­ It’s what men do and it’s a good thing we do it.  It keeps us off­ the streets and out of trouble.

          What’s happening to men and women in America is confusing. ­ We’re no longer the policeman or housewife.  We’re the­ police person and Mr. Mom.  Women do manly things and men do ­womanly things.  In the process, we’re becoming more confused­ with the situation.  It used to be easy to “act like a man.”

          Not anymore.

          In some college campus dormitory manuals, a man must ask­ verbal permission to make love to a woman and she must answer in ­the affirmative.  Otherwise, he can’t proceed.  He’s no longer­ the aggressor nor is he a man any longer.  She’s in control via a law written into a manual, but spontaneity, lust and romance fell­ to the floor like a fly being swatted off the wall. 

          Once upon a time, men led men into battle.  Now, women­ commanders call the shots and men follow them.  What happens when ­she has a mood swing and starts crying?  Do her men cry too? ­ They’ll get their asses kicked by the attackers.  One of the atrocities of having women in combat is the fact that if they are­ being over run by the enemy, the guys in the platoon, knowing ­they are about to die, may want one last sexual act before­ death–so they’ll drop trow and bed their female troopers instead­ of fighting valiantly.  Combat is one area where we should have ­kept the position of manhood sacrosanct.  As it is, the rapes and ­molestations in the military will continue to reduce moral and­ fighting readiness.  The fact is, women in combat roles, is a­ recipe for defeat.

          Because of the confusion in many areas of our emerging­ society, it’s hard keeping romance alive.  But you can by sheer ­force of your personal manhood.  To be a man, you ask for the­ first date.  Just be yourself–even if you’re not 100%­ aggressive.  Laugh when you feel like it and share your­ enthusiasm.  If a woman said “Yes” to a date with you, it meant­ she was attracted to you physically.  It’s up to you and her to ­be yourselves and see what happens.  Mutual attraction blossoms ­when things go easily.

          If you both click socially, mentally and physically, it’ll ­end up in bed.  When that part of your lives clicks, the world is ­a wonderful place.  Keep being yourself.

          With all the craziness out there, by presenting your honest ­personality and interests, she will respond.  If she’s good for ­you and it’s mutual, let it continue.

          When you make the right mate choice, life becomes a little ­easier and clearer.



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