Dating advice for young men

At Ace of Spades Open Blogger Warden decides to offer some advice to young men about dating.

Never ask twice. If she says no to a date, move on and don’t look back. Do not allow yourself to become someone’s backup plan. If a woman ever changes her mind about how she feels about you, then she’ll chase YOU down.

…Don’t try to gal pal your way into a woman’s heart, particularly when she’s currently in a “bad relationship.” You will not be rewarded for it. Let her girlfriend be a shoulder to cry on.

…Compliments are tricky and should be given sparingly. The correct way to compliment a woman is by making it about something specific and unique about her personality, appearance, clothing, etc.. (that blue dress really brings out your eyes). General compliments (you are so good looking) are counterproductive and make you look weak/oily/desperate.

…If you’re suddenly the funniest guy on the planet, then she probably likes you. If she touches her hair a lot or your chest, bicep or forearm… then she probably likes you. If her eyes wander about your face while you’re talking then she DEFINITELY likes you. That or you have an unsightly mole.

…Be a gentleman. Treat women with respect, but don’t be weak. A woman will ultimately test you. If you make a habit of letting her run you over in order to avoid conflict, she’ll eventually lose interest and break up with you or, worse, cheat on you with someone more challenging and exciting.

…Never have sex with a woman without thinking long and hard (heh) about what it might be like to be attached to her for the rest of your life—because this is what will happen if you get her pregnant, regardless of whether or not you marry.

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