You broke up and now you want to get back together with your ex.... Now what?  Can you get your ex back?  Is it possible?  Over at BringBackMyEx.com, we've learned alot about relationships - mainly how couples can get back together and STAY back together.  Let's talk about 3 ways to get your ex back....

How To Get Your Ex Back

Now that the dust has settled and you've gotten over the worst of the shock from your relationship ending, it's time to figure out ways to get your ex back. This shouldn't be some sneaky, manipulative plan.  It should be an intelligent calm approach to let your ex know you still care and you want to give the relationship another try.

Of course, before you even try to reconcile with your ex, you need to really think long and hard if you should continue the relationship.  When you're still hurting and trying to readjust to life without your ex, it's easy to confuse that uncertainty with love and the desire to be back with your ex.  It could just be a little bit of loneliness or the distaste for having to start over again, and neither of those are good reasons to continue a relationship.

If you're convinced that the relationship was something special and good for you overall, despite the problems the two of you had, than here are some tactics that may help:

• 1.  First of all, take some time apart.  Don't call or text your ex all the time.  It makes you look desperate and it will just annoy them.  Instead, give your ex some space and try not to communicate with them at all at first.  Doing this will also give you more time to 'regroup' and get back on your feet a little bit.  You should wait at least a week or two, maybe more.

• 2. Use this time apart as a chance to work on you.  That way no matter what happens with your ex, you'll be a new and improved version.  Try to honestly evaluate your part in the break up, what you did wrong, what you did right, and what you should change.  This is an important step in your growth which will be necessary if you don't want to just keep making the same mistakes.

• 3. When the time comes to talk to you ex, call and calmly tell them that you still care and you'd like to get back together.  Ask them if they feel the same way, and no matter what they say, you have to stay calm. 

If they say they want to meet than set up a time and a place where you can talk.  At this meeting make sure that you both don't bring up a lot of old hurts, try instead to talk more in general terms about what went wrong and what each of you can do to make things better.

Use these ways to get your ex back as a starting point to reunite with the one you love.  You can also find many helpful resources at BringBackMyEx.com that can give you even more information and a plan to follow that can help you get your ex back - no matter what your situation is.