Increasingly, Men See Women as "The Enemy"

from June 8, 2014

Mike’s Complaint, Women Want Kids Not Husbands, received a robust response from men:

Bill says, “Women are More trouble than they’re Worth”

I agree with Mike in the UK. Porn does for me what real women never have. I was married to a hot Filipina for 11 years too; so I know what a good sex life is like. And I was a born-again Christian for 22 years too; so I know where all the anti-porn folks are coming from. In fact, the only reason I sought out a wife was in obedience to 1 Corinthians 7:9 “But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.” That was the worst decision of my life! The best decisions of my life were 1) getting a vasectomy and 2) divorcing my stress/drama/debt-generator wife. As good as the sex was, it was not worth the price I paid.

I have discovered that MGTOW (men going their own way) is the path to peace and happiness. I live in Florida in a nice aircon condo. I take a 30-45 minute walk every day in the natural beauty that is my neighborhood. I read alot of articles online each day and interact with Facebook friends. I run my online machinery business. I take 1 or 2 vacations to Thailand or the Philippines each year. That is the only time I have sex. But it’s all good. Because porn is always there for me when I get horny. It never says NO. It never shames me. It never threatens me. It demands nothing in return. It’s free! It offers a different experience each and every time – at MY convenience. When I am done, it is done. I am in total control. What is not to like?

The detractors will say, “it’s like looking at a magazine ad vs. eating a real steak.” Not so! Having real sex with real women can be great, but is often boring. The effort men put into obtaining that sex is often ridiculously high. They also put themselves at risk. There are many “honey traps” out there. Men using Craigs list or dating sites are often robbed or even murdered. There are also life threatening STDs to avoid. The detractors will say, “you are looking for women in all the wrong places” OR “you just can’t find quality women.” Exactly – I can’t. So I have the wisdom to admit it and enjoy a spot of porn on occasional. Same way I enjoy a spot of whiskey on occasion. It’s not an addiction. It’s a gift from God and meets my need. I partake with a grateful spirit.

The detractors point out that porn is produced and promoted by the Illuminati to further their Satanic agenda of depopulation, to spiritually weaken its consumers and for the money. Agreed. However, I’ll bet these same people who are pursuing holiness are attending churches who have been infiltrated by feminism, political correctness and Zionism. I feel closer to God now than I did when I was attending church regularly, tithing, serving, witnessing, praying and reading my Bible every day. I no longer do any of those things. With the way men are targeted and abused in divorce court these days, I would revise 1 Corinthians 7:9 to read “But if they cannot control themselves, they should watch porn and masturbate, for it is better to jack off than to burn with passion.”

On the subject of women wanting kids, not husbands, I agree. The New Unmarried Moms, and The Tipping Point When Marriage and Children Is No Longer a Package Deal

However, this article is more to the point of our discussion. Woman’s Marriage/Man’s Marriage: Two Different Worlds: “Women go into marriage for the marriage. Men go into marriage for the woman. For the woman, it’s a combo, a package deal. You get the house, the stuff, the kids and the guy. I can’t tell you how many men in my office complain that they feel they are last on the list, after the kids, her job, her mother, her sister, her friends and Zumba. She can get her needs met in a variety of ways and can have close, intimate relationships with any one of those people on that list, not only with him.”

For most men, marriage is a bad deal. Better to buy a dog. The dog doesn’t mind at all when you look at porn!

Mike – from what you told, your problems might be: 1. You are targeting the wrong kind of women and are unable to recognize their given psychology correctly. Some are lost causes, but there are still enough girls out there who will gladly submit and be in a relationship with a masculine man. A man can learn to unravel the “feminine mystique” via knowledge of Game. 2. It is likely that you are attractive or good-looking, also have sexual prowess, but women don’t feel a strong bond with you – all men with excellent Game have met plenty of women, who would love to be wifed up by them (so called Deep-Conversion Game).

In the old times it was enough to be a good provider to get a woman. Nowadays it takes that, plus being Game-aware and having manifested more Alpha characteristics.

More on this by more traditional marriage encouraging manosphere sites – all written by happily married guys who learnt Game: http://therationalmale.com/
http://dalrock.wordpress.com/
http://marriedmansexlife.com/

I wish you would give Game more credit. Game is not evil. Pumping and dumping may be not so beneficial, but knowledge itself of female inborn psychology is not bad. I have now met plenty of women, who actually recognized their own destructive motivations when I pointed them out. Some even accepted them and are trying to readjust their lives. We men are actually simpler, more straightforward creatures, but women behave according to a different set of rules. The worst is that women are barely aware of it – and so are most men.

But I think that the Illuminati high-level psychologists likely knew that a long time ago and knew what would happen when women would be given those “freedoms” and be “empowered”.

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Will is on the verge of giving up:

It really seems that as a man living in western culture, like Mike I cannot help but feel like I am being backed into a corner. My physical desires command me to mate with women, yet the women in this environment are clearly toxic (feminism, media, etc.) Porn use has clearly been shown to cause neurological problems (reversible through quitting and physical exercise), and everywhere women dress in an extremely sexually provocative way constantly teasing you with their sexuality.

Unlike Mike, I have not had any women want me as a DNA provider, but I know that as soon as I finish my education (PhD in Neuroscience) and hit a stride in my career, women will just see me as a stable walking and talking ATM, whom they will gladly divorce and take resources from.

Importing women from more stable environments (i.e. overseas or religious women) into this one is an option, but women often are poisoned with feminism on entry and the same problem of them leaving and stripping you of resources occurs.

Not to mention that this toxic feminist virus is spreading around the world at a rapid rate. However, there is slim albeit risky chance for Mike to get the life he desires. Having been selected as a DNA provider in his 20′s (I am assuming) it is clear that women are attracted to him on a more primal/basic level.

He could theoretically quit porn, channel his sexual energy into his career and gain social status. This way women should more easily flock to him and he can more easily have his pick. If he carefully is able to select a young woman from a stable family/religious background, his primal attractiveness combined with his newly increased social status hopefully should be enough to convince the woman to marry him and not to stray from the marriage.

As for myself, my 20′s are almost over (turn 27 this month). I have been on many first dates (no sex) and not had a single second date. I am extremely physically fit (train at the gym 4 days a week). I have no problem talking to women or making them laugh but it is clear that I get put in the friend-zone and am not DNA provider material.

Taking into account my experiences with these women and the experiences of other provider type men/friends who are now going through painful and humiliating divorces/child support battles, it has become crystal clear to me that women on a primal/physical level are not attracted to me and only see me as a potential provider that they can easily discard once resources are attained thanks to no-fault divorce.

Personally, I have too much dignity to let that happen and I pray to God that He will help control my sexual desires so I can maintain what dignity I have left.

Art says, C’mon Men, have Some Fun:

So he’s bored with women, okay, but here’s a story from a man who’s never bored with them. I’m entertained by them, although more than 13 years happily celibate. Without the pressure to fondle and penetrate body parts a whole new world opens to you. The fondling can happen later when you finally locate one worth the effort.

As a relatively new resident in a new city, and an avid ice skater, I come in contact with a plethora of very attractive women. I know so many now I struggle to remember all their names.

I have developed what I am calling a “feminist” test. It takes a bit of practice to employ properly because one must believably take on the role, jokingly, of a sexist, if only for a few moments. Timing is crucial of course. At some point in the conversation, work in something like this. “I think you’d look great behind an ironing board, or pushing a broom or mop”. It’s so over the top in modern society it’s hard to keep a straight face. You WILL turn heads of women around you so be prepared.

One of two things will happen, the target woman will explode in visible anger and be beside herself (feminist), or she will have a suspicious look followed by a smiling relief knowing you can’t possibly feel that way (real woman who may share some feminist ideals but isn’t sure why). So much fun I tell you. Now who’s in the driver seat?

Remaining friendly but never give any hint that this is all happening in order to score. She will be left wondering what is wrong with you. A man that “isn’t trying to get in her pants”? Perplexing. Astounding. Attractive! Yes, you are now a one in a million, and I assure you they’ll be back for more,

I’m holding out for just one woman that I can’t remain celibate around. So far she hasn’t appeared before my eyes. When she does though, I will be sure to return here and report.

C’mon men, turn this game around. BE the dominant force you were designed to be. No one has ever died from a lack of sex. Man up gentlemen, get out there and have some fun again.

NOTE:  If anyone is interested in temporarily swearing off sexual activity, the way a sweat lodge cleanses the mind and body, one thing must be done to be successful. Stop consuming pornography. It’s a terrible addiction. It desensitizes men to female bodies to a point where a physical response to the very sight of one no longer cause erectile results.