Young Women & Sex -- Overrated
I turned 67 last November. When I think back over the great loves of my life–the young women that held me spellbound– I realize now they were all delusions. The ladies were not who I thought they were. I idealized them. (I was flawed as well.)
Idealization is an important part of the mating process. But, do we really want to be fooled and suffer the consequences?
We are programmed by popular culture –especially movies and music — to fulfill mental concepts whether or not they correspond to reality. Our pagan (i.e. Cabalistic, Masonic) “culture” regards sex as a holy sacrament/ universal panacea. Since women are keepers of the Holy Grail, they are elevated to the status of goddesses. Their approval is a Divine blessing.
CREATING REALITY
The current hook-up culture is very bad for women who have an expiry date. Their sex appeal is a function of their fertility which declines rapidly after 40. That’s why they need to establish a loving marriage and family to provide security into old age.
Sex is part of the matrix that keeps us in mental and spiritual slavery. Television constantly cues us to pursue sex and everything leading to it. The mainstreaming of anonymous sex, pornography and obscenity has degraded us all.
Luckily, there are better men than I who recognized this truth earlier. SZ wrote recently, “
Most men lack the ability to see through the female masks. Most men are hopelessly romantic, and shut down any analysis of negative feedback from the supposed chosen woman. I don’t know why, I always have been good at judging people´s character…it is not a wonderful thing, to be able to know that something is wrong with a person, especially when you want to be with that person. But really, it is something that can wreck your life. And then we all blame the system, feminism and the universe. Yet, even before the crystallization of feminism, women were already taking advantage of guys.”As this letter suggests, when we understand the world and see through mass media, we can establish our lives on firm foundations instead of chimeras.
Don’t misunderstand me. I advocate marriage and family. Part of my detachment is due to being happily married. My wife empowers me in many ways. But many young women today have been re-engineered to fear, imitate and challenge men. They have been lied to and betrayed by society.
A reader reports a young male friend complaining “how predatory are the girls he comes across – how they expect sex on the first meeting, and are only out for one-night-stands, and how he and his friends feel confused, as though their gender role has been usurped.”
ADVICE FOR YOUNG MEN
If I were starting out again, I would focus on building my self-confidence. For men, this comes from recognition and reward we get from work well done. I would look for a wife that wanted to be first mate on my ship, and offer her my love and loyalty in return. With a successful marriage, all other women become redundant and sex loses its mythic quality.
The mating instinct in young men is just as powerful as in women. These days men are more devastated by a breakup than women. That’s why they need to concentrate on what strengthens them, and seek only women who want marriage. Study their character through patient courtship. Avoid feminists, sluts and women who had bad relationships with their fathers. Look for a dependable helpmate/ companion rather than soul mate. (Souls are too mercurial.)
Love and sex shouldn’t be your first priority. These add to life but our primary relationship is with God, who is the personal ideal we set for ourself. Henry David Thoreau said: “Every man is tasked to make his life, even in its details, worthy of the contemplation of his most elevated and critical hour.”
God is represented by our soul. Our goal is to be in total possession of ourselves (true to our ideal self) always. Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “A trust in yourself is the height of piety, not pride. It is unwillingness to learn from any but God Himself.”
As for lobster, give me large shrimp at half-the-price; and you don’t need to struggle with the shell.
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“What we lose when we forget what sex is for”
Reading Suggestion: “Sexual Energy and Yoga” by Elizabeth Haich, 1972
Related- my “The Biggest Mistake Men Make” and “Managing the Male Sex Drive”
Post Nuptial Depression
Source: https://www.henrymakow.com/overratedromantic_love_sex_and.html
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Great article thank you. Being a young older woman. I realized reading your article just how much I had come to learn, come to grips with in my nearly 70 years on this earth.
Thank you!
I know it’s overrated…..but it rubs me the Right way !!!
children are naturally curious about sexuality and gender roles, they are bombarded with sexual themes on television programming and in print photo journalism, if they are curious and growing up too fast they also need to learn about condoms and safe sex and birth control and parental responsibilities