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In light of the recent school shooting, I cannot remain silent any longer…

Very few people have heard the words “attachment disorder.” I will explain to you what attachment disorder is. Attachment Disorder is defined as the condition in which individuals have difficulty forming lasting relationships.

They often show nearly a complete lack of ability to be genuinely affectionate with others.

They typically fail to develop a conscience and do not learn to trust.

They do not allow people to be in control of them due to this trust issue.

This damage is done by inflicted abuse or neglect. Sometimes it stems from being physically or emotionally separated from one primary caregiver during the first 3 years of life.

They are unable to love or feel guilty.

They do not possess a conscience. Their inability to enter into any relationship makes treatment or even education impossible.

“If a child is not attached – does not form a loving bond with the mother – he does not develop an attachment to the rest of mankind. The unattached child literally does not have a stake in humanity” (Magid & McKelvey 1988).

“At the core of the unattached, is a deep-seeded rage, far beyond normal anger. This rage is suppressed in their psyche. Now, we all have some degree of rage, but the rage of psychopaths is that, born of unfulfilled needs as infants. Incomprehensible pain is forever locked in their souls, because of the abandonment they felt as infants.”
(Magid & McKelvey 1988)

I’ve scrolled through multiple Facebook statuses this morning regarding this tragic act of evil. Many people have their own theories of how to prevent these acts of evil. Some of you have suggested we teach our children to warmly welcome the “loner kid” into his or her group of friends. Others have suggested that a hug, a smile, or gestures of kindness to the outcasted child might make a difference.

Unfortunately, the brain of a detached child is considerably more complex than this. Attachment is defined as the affectional tie between two people. It begins with the bond between an infant and its mother. This bond, or lack thereof, becomes internally representative of how the child will form relationships with the world. The initial relationship between self and others will serve as a blueprint for all future relationships.

Some of you say he was a crazy kid who needed mental help and needed his parents to show him more attention and take more of an interest in his life. Hear me out when I say this. I’ve spent years of my life studying attachment disorders. For 5 years of my life, I moved heaven and earth to teach a child diagnosed with reactive attachment disorder, what love and heathy attachment is by example.

I say this with tears in my eyes, I failed.

I failed to successfully rehabilitate him.
The 5 doctors failed.
The 4 medications failed.
The 154 therapy sessions failed.
The 9 therapists failed.
The 6 hospitalizations failed.
The therapeutic parenting failed.
The 1,267 pages of related knowledge I read, failed.
The play therapy failed.
The trauma-based therapy failed.
The social workers failed.
The healthcare system failed.
The department of juvenile justice failed.
The school system failed.
The 4 calls to police failed.
The father’s love and attachment failed.
The unconditional love failed.
But most of all, his biological mother FAILED him.

I am here to tell you all, with God as my witness, love is not enough.

I’m going to say it again because it’s that important; love is not enough.

These detached children are internally damaged and dangerous. They only grow exponentially more dangerous as they age. Very few can be rehabilitated. Some children are capable of evil. This is a hard truth to come to terms with and it goes against everything we initially thought. If you pay close enough attention to detail, you will see the warning signs. All of the warning signs…

The authorities are telling the public to inform them of the warning signs before something tragic and irreversible happens. We have done this. We have begged. We have pleaded. They have done absolutely nothing. They say “He’s a child.” As if this makes him immune to a mental disorder that poses a threat to the public.

How many more innocent children must die before the authorities acknowledge that dangerous children with homicidal intentions exist in our world??

How many more? How many?

America’s most valuable resource is it’s children; today we are tossing them aside at an unprecedented rate. -McKelvey, C. & Stevens, J. Ph.D.

***Please keep sharing this to bring more attention to the mental health situation in this country, starting with our children. Thank you to all that shared this.

Source: Aimee Hyatt @FaceBook.com

#reactiveattachmentdisorderawareness#attachmentdisorders #dosomething#americasmostvaluableresourceisitschildren#nancythomas #mentalhealth #change#preventviolence #somethingtoprotestabout#floridashooting #floridaschoolshooting#prayforflorida #rad #children #adoption #fostercare#trauma #neglect #abuse

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    • CaptainPicardX

      You just described every autistic child in the world, and basically said that there is no help for them, so what should we do with them? Kill them? Or electro shock therapy?

      You need to be kept far far away from any autistic child cause you have no emphaty, or brains for this , you , more than likely fake apostate jesus the capitalist pro gun guy

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