10 Weird Ways to Help You Last Longer in Bed

Are you having trouble pleasing the ladies? It can be stressful trying to get the perfect ending to a great date. Because, let’s face it, just sealing the deal isn’t enough. You also want to last as long as possible.

Trying to figure out how to last longer during sex can be hard. You may think that you’ve tried anything, and there’s nothing left to do. But, you’d be surprised!

There are a few weird ways to help you last longer in bed. Some of these involve changing your routine in the bedroom, while others focus on preparing before sex.

Do you want to know more? Keep reading to discover 10 weird ways to help you last longer in bed.

1. Focus on Your Breathing

While you may not be thinking about breathing during sex, it’s one of the best (and weirdest) tips to last longer in bed. And all you have to do is breath in slowly for 8 seconds, hold it for 1 second, then breath out slowly for 10 seconds.

Proper breathing is an important step to take to ensure you don’t tire out quickly when doing any type of cardio exercise, including sex. Regular cardio exercises and controlled breathing are great ways to get you in the perfect physical shape for long-lasting sex.

But it can also help you from ejaculating too quickly by helping to release tension in your muscles. You ejaculate because your PC muscles tense up. By focusing on your breathing, you can relax these muscles to last longer in bed.

2. Teeter the Edge

When learning how to last longer in bed, it’s important to get to know all the weird feelings your body has right before you come. Find out what it feels like when you’ve reached the point of inevitable ejaculation, then find out what it feels like right before that moment.

During sex (or masturbation if you’re looking for some extra practice), get to the point right before you know you won’t be able to control your ejaculation and then stop. Give your body some time to come down before you resume sex again.

But this doesn’t mean you can’t do anything. Try pleasuring your partner orally or bringing out some weird sex toys to spice things up.

3. Try the TBP Method

TBP stands for tongue, back, push. This is a weird method that focuses your energy away from the about-to-come sensation long enough that the need to ejaculate diminishes.

First, move your tongue on the roof of your mouth in a circular motion. While you do this, run your hands up and down her back, sides, or legs. Then, push your muscles like you are trying to pee for 5 seconds (we know, it’s weird – just trust us).

The first two steps focus on shifting your attention away from the ejaculation sensation by giving you gentle stimulation elsewhere (on the roof of your mouth and the touch of your partner). The last step focuses on releasing tension so you’re physically not ready to ejaculate.

4. Do Some Kegels

Think Kegels are only for women? Think again! One of the best weird ways to control yourself and achieve longer intercourse is to train the PC muscles – the muscles cause ejaculation.

Kegels help strengthen these muscles, and learning how to exercise them will give you better control over the tension that causes you to come.

5. Masturbate Before Sex

Do you have some time before you lady caller comes over? One of the weirdest tips to last longer in bed is to give yourself a head start.

Now, we know what you’re thinking: “I don’t want to finish before we even start!” Well, masturbation can help you last longer in bed by desensitizing you, so you don’t feel the need to finish as soon as you slip it in.

Just be sure you don’t masturbate too long! You don’t want to come, you just want to get yourself warmed up.

6. Don’t Jump Right into the Good Stuff

Speaking of warming up, the same goes for sex. If you’re dedicated to lasting longer in bed, your sexual routine might need to be shaken up.

Don’t jump right into your favorite position. The high levels of pleasure will make it harder to control yourself. Instead, start with something new, weird, or something that doesn’t feel quite as good. Then, work your way up to your favorite position.

7. Change Positions

The act of changing positions can also give you longer intercourse. Staying in the same position (especially a really good one) for too long can cause you to come faster.

Instead, try some different and weird sex positions. This can be a great way to teeter the edge by changing positions right before the point of no return. It’ll give you a chance to cool down, and it’ll make sex more interesting. So it’s really a win-win.

8. Pace Yourself

The faster you work out, the more likely your muscles will tense quicker. And you know what happens when your PC muscles tense? It’s all over.

One weird way to prevent this is to start out slow. You can gradually get faster, but if you feel like you’re about to come, stop moving altogether.

You may be able to leave it inside her and give her some gentle kisses, but any movement at this moment could cause ejaculation before you’re ready.

9. Stay Shallow

Sex full of deep thrusts is one way to make you ejaculate faster.

Instead, try some new and weird sex by alternating between deep and shallow thrusts. This will help mix things up for more interesting sex and help you control your urge to come.

10. Head to the Store

If you’re still struggling with having longer intercourse, a trip to the drug store may help.

Duration sprays (like K-Y Duration) may sound weird, but they can help desensitize you. This will allow you to last longer in bed, and still leave you with all the great sex sensations.

If your problem involves not being able to get or stay hard, erectile dysfunction medications are available to help. You can discover more about that here.

How to Last Longer in Bed

You may feel frustrated or embarrassed if you feel like your sex game isn’t up to par. But the good news is that there are some weird ways to help you last longer in bed.

By doing things like teetering the edge, masturbating before sex, and changing positions, you can have longer (and more interesting) sex!

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