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4 Signs He Is Cheating on Me

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4 Signs He Is Cheating on Me

Relationships are full of ups and downs and navigating a successful relationship can be tough. This is especially so when you suspect a person of being unfaithful.
Cheating is considered an ultimate betrayal to many people and once discovered, many people find it exceptionally hard to move past the pain and rebuild the relationship. According to studies that involved married couples in the US, 20%-40% of married men will have an extramarital affair, which means that many women have to deal with infidelity in one form or another in their lifetime.
On the whole, cheating doesn’t happen overnight, and it rarely only ever happens once. For this reason, many women can tell that their significant other is cheating on them long before the truth comes out. To better guard yourself against the heartache of finding out that your significant other is cheating on you from someone else, here are some of the warning signs of cheating that you should take note of when in a relationship.

Increased Phone and Social Media Usage

One of the easiest signs of a cheating partner is a sudden change in behavior when it comes to his phone or social media usage. While this on its own may not be a definite sign of infidelity, if your partner is particularly secretive about who he is messaging then you may need to start worrying. If he is suddenly carrying his phone with him when he leaves the room, this could also be a sign that he is hiding something from you.
A simple way to find out if there is something you should be concerned about is by asking outright why there has been such a change in his behavior. If he immediately gets defensive, then it is even more likely that he is feeling guilty about something, and it might be time to hire a PI to verify what’s really going on.
Thanks to advances in technology, there are several ways a person can check if their partner is cheating on them just by checking the very technology that is helping them be unfaithful. Looking at the browser history of a suspected person can often tell you a lot about their current activities, and whether or not they are spending money buying gifts for someone else. Auto statements for banking apps can also give a person some clues about their partner’s spending history.

Sudden Attention Being Given to His Appearance

In terms of changes in behavior, one of the big warning signs that a partner may be unfaithful is a sudden change in his focus on his appearance. If he is suddenly more concerned about what his hair looks like when he leaves the house, or he recently went out to buy some new designer clothes and pricey cologne, this may be a sign he is trying to impress someone new. Changes like this can also include a sudden desire to get fit or go to the gym more.
While some of these changes can be explained quite easily, if you ask your partner about this newfound attention to his appearance and he cannot give an explanation then it may be due to something he cannot talk about, such as what kind of things his new girlfriend likes or does not like.

He Is More Prone to Mood Swings and Picks Fights

People that have something to hide often tend to get defensive when people ask questions that normally wouldn’t require an emotive response. When asked what they got up to over the weekend, a regular person may rattle off that they went to the gym on Saturday and then watched a movie in the evening. A guilty person may make a big deal about the question and act offended that their partner is checking up on them.
Guilty partners are also more prone to pick a fight, particularly when it comes to the attention of other people. A person who is cheating may even accuse their partner of cheating to deflect attention from their infidelity.

His Intimacy Habits Change Dramatically

Sex is the primary form of intimacy between many couples and, while a lack of intimacy in the bedroom could be an indication that there is something wrong in the relationship, the opposite can also signal that a person is cheating on you.
Many women report that their spouses were more interested in them in the bedroom after they started cheating. Whether this is because the idea of infidelity is giving him a power rush or because someone else is teaching him new tricks, any dramatic changes in intimacy should be taken as warning signs.
While all of these signs on their own do not necessarily indicate that your partner is cheating on you, if there is more than one tip on this list that hits home, then it may be time to start preparing for the worst. Finding out that someone is cheating on you is never easy so, before you start making accusations, it is always wise to reach out to your partner and try to talk things over before you reach a solid conclusion.

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