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Relationships: If I Let Him Go Will He Come Back?

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Relationships: If I Let Him Go Will He Come Back?

Letting go is not easy, especially when you are letting go of something you love. This is especially true when letting go of a relationship that you so desperately wanted to work. Maybe you aren’t ready for the relationship, or your significant other doesn’t give you the attention you desire, or perhaps you want to be on your own for a while.

We take a closer look at letting go and whether or not your partner will come back.

Why Are You Letting Go?

Many different factors can play a role in an unhappy relationship. One of the leading concerns women have in their relationship with their boyfriend or husband is lack of attention.

Unfortunately, these women often feel the only way they can get the attention of their boyfriend or husband is by breaking things off in hopes that they will see what they had, and come running back.

Letting go of a relationship to get attention is a reckless decision that comes with uncertainty, which means it may not be the best verdict. Here are some reasons why breaking up with your boyfriend or husband to get their attention is not ideal.

It Breaks Trust

Relationships are built on trust and without it, it is very difficult to achieve a healthy relationship. By breaking off your relationship with your boyfriend or husband, you will open doors for questioning the true intentions of the breakup, even if it is as honest as an attempt to get their attention.

When trust is broken in a relationship, it isn’t easy to build back and you may never return to a solid foundation. This can ultimately cause more problems in the future, even if you do decide to get back together.

Lacks Maturity

To simply state it, letting go of your significant other to get their attention is immature. A relationship is a balancing act that takes effort from both sides. By breaking off the relationship hoping they will come to a sudden realization that they need to pay more attention to you, you are placing all of the weight on the shoulders of your significant other and not holding up your end of the relationship.

If you are searching for a more stable, loving relationship, make sure you are doing what you can to hold up your end of the deal. You never know; he may be feeling the same things you are.

Men Are Not Mind Readers

No matter how much you want your boyfriend or husband to know what they are doing wrong without you having to spell it out for them, they won’t. Men are not mind readers. One of the biggest reasons relationships do not work out is due to poor communication.

If you feel you are not getting the attention you deserve in your relationship, express those feelings. You may feel like it is obvious that your significant other is not giving you the attention you need, but they may not feel that way. The best way to express that is by simply telling them!

Final Thoughts on Letting Go

There is a vast number of differences between men and women when it comes to the repercussions of a breakup. Men and women process things differently. As a result, breaking up for attention or in hopes he comes back can harm you more than you realize. Therefore, making a rash decision to break up to get his attention is not a favorable decision.

The truth is, who knows if he will come back ready to fight for what you had, or if he will bask in his newfound freedom. Instead of blindly letting him go, focus on communicating your feelings and doing what you can to become a better partner; hopefully, the rest will fall into place.

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