Sexodus

I am a mother of four in my mid 30′s and I have been told that I have some psychic abilities, mainly psychometry, paranormal, and lately remote viewing. Things come to me in the form of pictures in my mind, feelings and impressions, and sometimes sounds. I typically get them when asked to focus on specific objects or events. I clear my mind, think of the question or object and this blog is an example of what I get. This blog is a way for me to organize all my thoughts. Q. Just wondering if you were able to do a reading on sexodus please? Are we really being programmed as females to unrealistically expect more from men? I read somewhere that it is a ploy to destroy society. I see it so often with friends and family and know I tend to do it myself. Thanks heaps.
A. [I want to start by saying that I understand the term sexodus to mean a society in which men are withdrawing from the desire to be in relationships / get married].
Society in general is being programed (both men and women).  I see a shift going from a more value/moral based society (not that people don’t have values or understand right/wrong, but those qualities don’t seem to be promoted or seen in repetitive clear messages) to be a more materialistic, “me-centric” society.  I also see that there isn’t a push for working hard to earn x-y-z, but rather people just inherently deserve things/objects which creates an entitled society. 

Media perpetuates this by commercials, advertisements and tv shows (programming) telling people what they should look like, buy, wear, drive, etc…  Then I get an image of a woman saying, “I don’t care about all that. I’m just going to be myself.”  Then she goes to meet her friends for lunch, and when she gets there her friends all have designer purses.  Instantly (out of a need to compete) she wants one too.  If the messages aren’t directly “programmed” into us, they sneak in through indirect means. There are people that fight through this, but it is a conscious decision to do so, and many people feel weak to it.

I get that both men and women are exposed to this, but the target is the women. Q I ask, why are women targeted? 
A. I get it is for a few reasons.  Many times (not all, but many) women run on emotion before rational thoughts kick in- it is a gut reaction.  Men (not always, but many times) can rationally process something instantly and then emotion about the decision kicks in as a more delayed response.

I then get an image of a woman standing in the middle of a circle and she is surrounded by her husband, children, house, dog, etc.  She looks to have influence over all these things- and if she is happy, the house is happy.  The inverse is true of this too. The man (knowing this) wants to make his woman happy (to make everyone happy) and will try hard to give her what she wants.

Q. How did this start?
A. I see this started when many homes converted from being single income families to dual income families.  I see an image of Rosie the Riveter as I type this. Earning money this way was a huge step for women and gave them an experience that they had not had before.  Along with the experience came the programming and telling women what they deserved, how they should feel and what they should expect.  Women had their own money now, and the media was telling them how they should spend it to “feel good.”

Q. How did all of the above lead to a “sexodus?”
A. Everything that did happen, and is happening has created a confusion in roles, and the confusion led to unhappiness.  Rather than women staying home and raising their children and managing the house, many feel forced to work either out of necessity (for a lifestyle they are told they need) or because they feel a lack of glory or feeling of pride staying home.  Many women are natural nurturers and when that is removed from their life, they look to fill that empty spot with other things (i.e materialistic things that marketing says they need to feel better, appreciated or valued).  Rather than look inward to see what would make them feel more complete, I see them looking toward their man (I see an image of a woman giving her man “a look” as if to say “make me feel good” and the man just has a sad and lost look on his face (like he genuinely wants to help, but doesn’t know how or what to do).  

I get that the “sexodus” behavior is further created by shows like The Bachelor / Bachelorette. Women that are seeking out happiness see shows like this which create unrealistic expectations on men. Women are told and shown fairly tales, and movies depicting men doing extreme things to make their women happy.  

Men really do (at least most) want to make their women happy.  Men like to be viewed as heroes (I see a caveman beating his chest and running to rescue a woman).  When they can’t be the hero, or viewed like one, they start to deflate (I see a man’s chest deflating like a balloon).  It is easier for them to retreat than to feel bad about themselves.

Q.  Is this intentional to destroy society? 
A.  I don’t see it as intentional, but rather an unintended consequence that has enabled many people to get wealthy.  The profits made outweigh the detriment that is created within families.  

In closing, do what makes you happy because that will make you a more positive person and attract positivity back to you.  Take pride in your contributions and feel good about what you do.  Put value in the qualities in life and realize that the media and marketing telling you what to think is simply “noise.”

And that is all I have for this reading.. Thank you.