by LJ Vanier
Have you ever wondered why it is possible to walk into a room and immediately been drawn to someone you don’t even know? Like there is a magnetic force field between you, drawing you in, bring you closer and closer until finally without even knowing it, you are lost in conversation full of sexual charge.
We all possess powerful, electrical and magnetic forces within us. Alike to a magnet, we exert a force of attraction to others and between lovers, this magnetic energy is amplified, as we fixate on what it is that we are attracted to.
When we can learn to embrace this powerful energy, we can wield it to elevate our consciousness through the sacred act of sex.
An enlightened partner is aware of this and will use this same magnetic energy, to elevate the experience to heights you never thought possible. As if they are reading your mind, your sensitive spots, likes and dislikes without speaking a word.
If you are an un-enlightened person or someone who is not in tune with their own energy, you may be unaware of what is actually happening.
So how can we know, other than just great sex, if your partner is enlightened?
1.They are in the present moment.
An enlightened partner understands that sex can be meditative experience. Facilitating the three qualities of seeking an inward meditative state. Breath control, withdrawing the senses and concentration. When you are with an enlightened partner their mind isn’t wandering.
They aren’t thinking about anything other than what is being experienced in this very moment. The sensual touching and the energy being shared. The joy of the energy bodies igniting, becoming en-kindled in each other in order to heal and balance.
2. Sex Isn’t Just About Sex
An enlightened partner knows that there is no end game when it comes to sex and there is no rush. Sex isn’t about the release, it is about the experience.
When intimately connected, sex becomes more about deepening the emotional, psychological and spiritual bond.
3. They Look Deeply Into Your Eyes
An enlightened partner wants to see your soul and connect with your spirit. By staring deeply into your partners eyes you can bridge the connection, from soul to soul and spirit to spirit and the energy flows freely between the pair.
4. They are Not Selfish
A person who is selfish in general, is likely to be selfish in bed. A selfish lover won’t be connected to you emotionally and may stick to one position that works for them.
An enlightened partner will try taking things slow and will embrace various positions, to gain the proper energy flow.
This also is to ensure both partners are enjoying themselves as sex shouldn’t be about hard work.
5. Their Energy is Magnetic
An enlightened partner can play with your energy body. Using the positive and negative charge to draw up the energy from your sacral chakra, moving it up your spine with the intent to release it through the top of your head.
An enlightened partner wants you to experience… enlightenment!
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