Chapter 42: How to Deal with a 21st Century Woman--Split the bill, share the bed, save for counseling
By Frosty Wooldridge
Since we’re into the 21st century, you have different options facing you in your relationships with women.
Single or married, you still have to deal with new expectations of equality. It could get dicey when most women still expect the traditional ways of chivalry–you asking for the first date, using your car, opening the door for them, standing when they come to the table, paying the dinner tab, you asking them to dance, you initiating the first hug, kissing their hand before you kiss their derriere (not politically correct, but hey, let’s face it, we do anything for a woman just to get to the promised land)–yet they want us to treat them as equals.
If you find a woman who likes it equal and then switches to unequal to suit her whims, you need a conversation with her to determine the extent of her orientation.
We had one friend named Gene who was a doctor. At 40, he was single, but looking for a wife. (He thought twin boys would make his life complete.) He wore tailored shirts and drove a new car. At a fish fry he met Nancy. She wore tailored dresses and carried that “Cindy Crawford style” about her. (Unknown to him, she was much like Cindy Crawford and her parents were helping pay for her stylish clothes.) She was looking for a prince with a full bank account to take over for her parents. She possessed the full range of attractions for a deserving male…Victoria Secret’s finest satin under-things, a Cosmo cover girl cleavage, Purt bouncy hair shampoo, Cindy Crawford’s non-smear lipstick, elegant lashes by Cody, Leggs finest ‘no line’ pantyhose, and fire engine red nails by Revlon.
Gene struck up a conversation. They danced. He gave her his card. She called. They dated. He kept pulling out his wallet. They made love. He paid for dinners. She was falling in love. He fell into lust. He paid. She said, “Thank you.” He fell in love. Soon, wedding bells. She said she was in debt from her wardrobe chasing…”Since we’re getting married, could you help me….” He kept paying money for every frivolous thing she wanted. After the engagement pictures came out, she wanted more unnecessary things. He stopped in his tracks and scratched his chin, “What’s wrong with this picture?”
Did love conquer all? Not that time. He kept pulling his wallet out and she kept spending his money. As it got more out of hand, he became disgruntled, and angry. He realized that he would be paying for the rest of his life. The doctor opted out.
Good move.
Whenever you see a woman coming at you with conflicting orientations, it’s up to you to make rational decisions based on your experiences with that woman. Had our friend Gene continued with his wedding, he most likely would have paid for the counseling sessions, divorce, child support, alimony, etc. Be smart and check it out before making commitments. Use your 18 to 24-month courtship period to make solid life decisions.
On the other side, there are men who want to pay for their women. If you’re the type that doesn’t want your woman to work, or you want her to be a full time mother, fine. You need to understand that aspect of your needs. Many combinations of women exist from which you may choose. Your key is to choose a situation that you like and one that fits your paradigm.
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