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Stay Safe by Becoming the Grey Man

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The idea of the Grey Man is a simple one: don’t stand out. People are pushed more and more today be stand out from the crowd and to be the best they can be, which of course always includes making sure everyone knows you’re the best.

Instead of the common practice of showing off and being noticed, the Grey Man concept is all about blending in. This means dressing, acting, and behaving in such a way that you’re totally forgettable. While being forgettable is some people’s worst fear, it’s a practice that can save your life.

The Problem With Surviving

So who wouldn’t like someone who survives a major SHTF event, and does so well? For some reason, the unprepared have always hated those who put the work in and are ready. All you have to do to prove this idea is to think back to high school and before. The kids that read the assignment and were fully prepared for the test were called nerds and mad fun of, just because they put the work in that was necessary.

Jump ahead to your adult life and the same still rings true. Even if you’re pulling a friend out of a ditch, he’ll still probably joke with you on all the emergency equipment you have in your vehicle, even though you’re using it to save his butt. So why do people hate on those of us that do prepare? Well, one major point is jealousy. Many people are jealous that you thought of something they didn’t. Instead of being thankful you did and asking for some help, they tend to get angry. This is easy to avoid in high school, but in a true survival situation, these people could try to take your hard-earned prep from you and possibly even kill you. The problem with surviving is that you have to do so in a world that is actually mad at you for preparing for the exact event you’re all now dealing with. The more people know about your skills and prepping, the larger target you become when the SHTF for real.

Survivalist Hate

The idea of becoming a target for prepping may seem like some simple hazing and odd looks, which it might be now, when there is no true emergency happening, but this joking can easily turn into what’s known as “Survivalist Hate” when things go from bad to worse. Instead of people being thankful you help them, they will hate you for not telling them what was going on, even if you did.

You could get your house burnt down, your supplies raided, and even yourself killed. Survivalist hate is a real thing, and it’s one of the reasons practicing OpSec is so important. Without it, you’re putting yourself at risk.

Becoming the Grey Man

The idea is simple, just blend in. While simple, this is often easier said than done. Many preppers tend to stick out like sore thumbs in the world, and while they believe they are keeping a low profile, they’re really not. For example, wearing camo everywhere is far from blending in. If you always wear camo you’ll be remembered for it. People tend to associate guns and weaponry with camo, whether it’s for hunting or the military, people assume if you’re wearing fatigues you have at least one weapon at home.

Another simple tell that you’re a prepper in some way is the “Don’t Treat On Me” sticker on your car and flag at your house. Sure, these have become the signposts of the prepper and few people know this, but many do, and it’s just like putting a sticker on your car that says what stereo is inside it.

The idea is to be invisible in plain site, whether you’re in an emergency at the moment or not. Don’t wear clothes that stand out, don’t drive a big shiny truck, and definitely don’t open carry your firearm. Sure, this is your right as a US citizen, but you’ll be remembered as the “open carry guy” and everyone will know where to go get a gun when the SHTF.

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While you want to help out neighbors and other under-prepared people in time of emergency, don’t. By showing people that you have extra food and supplies you only open yourself up to attack. Help out where you can, but only when it supports blending in. You’ll be of no help to anyone if someone kills you for your food.

Finally, practice the ideas of the grey man every day. Keep from drawing attention to yourself and focus on OpSec every day. When you practice shooting, try to go when there’s nobody else on the range, and never bring more than 1-2 guns at any time. Make sure the cases the guns are in are as bland as possible and attract no extra attention. Even when loading your guns in the car to go to the range, do so when nobody is looking, ideally early in the morning.

When buying supplies for your prep, be mindful of what neighbors can see. Sure, one large bag of rice is fine, but carry one in every day for a week and people start to talk.

Hide in Plain Site

Keeping a low profile will keep you safe, plain and simple. The less people know about you, the better. For example, it’s probably not the best idea to run on alternate power like batteries or a generator during a power failure. Sure, you’ll be more comfortable with your lights and TV on, but everyone else in your neighborhood that’s sitting in complete darkness will remember you for it.

Defending our rights to keep and bear arms is important, but you should show this support in private and not showcase it for the world to see. That means no 2nd Amendment t-shirts and no hats showcasing the Glock logo.

While being a Grey Man might not be fun and it definitely isn’t glamorous, you need to remember that this is all part of prepping, and that your goal is to survive the coming storm. If that means keeping your bragging down to a minimum and changing how you dress a little, then so be it. You’ll be glad you did soon enough.

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    • Room With a View

      I concur with all you have said……people change in an emergency. We all like to delude ourselves into thinking that humans are basically good……they are only good when things are going well.Self storage pods are good. No one knows what you have in there, choose a location that is within walkng or cycling distance, keep a few things around and make it look like you are half hearted…no one takes you seriously. If you sacrifice one latte daily you have paid for the pod. Oh and trust in YHWH, he is able to supernaturally fill your stomach.

    • defineaproblem

      It is funny how those who plan ahead and have what they need become selfish, greedy, hoggish, miserly, mercenary, self-seeking, ungenerous, miserly, mean, etc. to those who fine themselves without due to poor planning on their part.

      I remember a sign someone has up at work.
      Poor planning on your part does not constitute a crisis on my part.

      You created the crisis for yourself I had no part in the decisions you made that have lead to the crisis you are experiencing. Nor is it my duty to fix your crisis at the expense of my own well being and that of my family.

      However, those in a crisis seldom tend to consider the impact on others that their demands to save themselves from the situation they created will result in!

      • CrowPie

        LOL! Yes……that would be the way you ‘d think.

        The ‘less fortunate’ neighbors who live down the road about a half mile from me loved to torment my huge dog. Yes…he is big…..but sweet. He hates the sound of four wheelers and would chase them when they would speed (illegally) past the house. He’s admittedly spoiled, and a little over weight :oops: so he could never get near them. No real problem…..right?

        Until one day when the oldest man, approximately mid twenties, stopped his four wheeler and waited on my dog, gunning the engine loudly…until my dog got close enough for the man to slam a metal pipe into his head…….nearly killing him. (I took him to the vet…..he was badly hurt and it took months for him to heal….but he is fine now.)

        I never said anything to the ‘unfortunate’ down the road. I let him feel he gained some satisfaction upper hand over the dog or me or whatever imagined insult he had been attacking. Since we had never spoken.

        Three months later, at 9:32pm on a Sunday night I heard three loud bumps out on the road. The whole family stood up to look out the window. No lights….no sounds….no barking dogs…nothing.

        Still we knew that sound wasn’t right. Flashlights, guns…..we went outside……down to the road….flashlights both ways……nope ……nothing.

        Okay said the hubby…..back inside…..

        The night was nice and the dogs were with me to alert me to trouble so I decided to walk the trash bin back down to the road.

        Back down at the road I heard it. A voice…..very faint….a long way off…..desperate…….anguished…..half crying half begging……..”I don’t want to die!” Yet so strangled that couldn’t actually be what I heard……..no…….my imagination……

        I took a couple of steps back toward the house and heard the screech owl babies in the nest….sounds so close to the same thing……. then I heard the voice again….”Please help me…..I Don’t wan to die.” So far away though……

        But I DO HAVE excellent hearing……

        Run…..back to the house, tell the hubby, ” Get in the truck RIGHT NOW, drive left….take the cell!”

        “I’m RIGHT BEHIND YOU in the VAN”

        Long story short……the unfortunate that nearly killed my dog was air lifted with a broken back from a field across from my house that night. He had So badly wrecked his truck that the bed of his pick-up had literally folded up over the cab and the engine disappeared into the culvert. His steering wheel looked like it connected to the dirt under the culvert. That man was dying and his truck could not be viewed from the road. If “I” had not heard him…..if “I’ had not cared….he would have perished that night in just a few short minutes.

        I could have brought up his harm to my dog…….I didn’t. Neither did he. He will never walk again. But I know that he thinks about that night…….and how I climbed into that truck that was leaking gas with him…….and sat in such a way to take pressure off of his hip so to relieve his pain until he could be cut out.

        That night still haunts me…….You can’t plan for every thing…….defineaproblem.

        Careful that you get to comfortable in your feelings of superiority.

    • westgate

      Flying a “Don’t Treat on Me” flag? What is this – a Halloween joke?

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