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Men – Design Your Perfect “10″

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left, a Victoria’s Secret model, the perfect 10? 

Reflections on my cult-ural 
brainwashing and 
what it cost me. 

(Updated from Nov. 11, 2009) 
by Henry Makow Ph.D. 

Lately I have been thinking about a great woman I knew when I was 24.  I ignored Liz because I wasn’t attracted to her sexually. She was average looking but there was no chemistry.” 

She had many of the qualities in the left-hand column below, and she liked me. But my tastes and even my ideas had been formed by PLAYBOY.   Average looking women were literally invisible to me. 

I had been brainwashed by my cult-ure to believe that “sexual attraction” is 75%-90% of what male-female relationships are all about. 

I believed marriages were based on sexual attraction. You had to live together before marriage to make sure you were “sexually compatible.”  Sex was the Holy Grail.

I was thinking about Liz lately, wondering what her life has been like. It must be hard for really great women to be ignored just because they weren’t “hot.” The truth is that love makes all women beautiful. 

I was thinking about Liz because I am 66 and now realize that sex  is a relatively small part of a good marriage, say 30%

What if I knew this back then? I wouldn’t have had three failed marriages by the age of 50, two largely based on sexual attraction.  

I am happily married now but how different my life might have been. I  might have had a family. 

Men, Design your perfect ”10″ 

You can choose 10 of the 20 qualities listed below.  If you choose only from the right-hand column, you will get the woman in the picture above, but she will have none of the qualities in the left-hand column. Put another way, what are you willing to give up for sex appeal? Write and tell me your answer. Give your age.

Character  (Honest, Fair)                         Sex Appeal

Personality (Cheerful & fun)                     Sex Appeal

Great Sense of Humor                             Sex Appeal

Intelligent and reasonable                        Sex Appeal

Skills & Talents                                       Sex Appeal

Warm and loving                                     Sex Appeal

Devoted & Loyal                                      Sex Appeal

Common Beliefs & Interests                     Sex Appeal
Great conversation.

Incredible Cook & Homemaker

Good mother to your children.                  Sex Appeal

Unselfish, Interested in Others                 Sex Appeal




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