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Elderly Parent Care Coach Helps Adult Children

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The following is a guest post by Rhonda Caudell
RN, CCM, CGCM, Elderly Parent Care
Coach who can be found at
www.EndlessLegacy.com.


Following years
of caring for medical needs of seniors, being a caregiver for parents and
grandparents, I am now a boomer realizing my friends are totally lost and in
the dark about caring for elderly parents.  My friends, like many other adults are:

Overwhelmed with medical jargon overload, or
with the total lack of information from medical providers.

Stressed due to important decisions needed
quickly about medical and non medical care providers, safety in the home
environment, money sources, transportation needs, end of life issues...the list
goes on.

Distracted with their work/career due to added
responsibilities of aging parents.

Guilty and angry because of added
responsibilities for parents' needs, long term dysfunctional parent-child
relationship, and arguments among siblings.

I have seen looks of pain, confusion, dread, and fear in the
faces of many smart, educated, very capable people. The main problem:

There is no model…no
pattern…no instruction booklet to follow.

To compound this main problem, one can rest assured; your
kids
are watching you as you care for your elderly parents! 

You become their model…their pattern…their
‘how to’ instructions.

For the sake of families, and leaving a legacy worth
repeating and remembering, I chose to be a more informed, less stressed, anger-free,
loving caregiver of my elderly parent.

The definition of coach is simply to give instructions and advice…To
be an educator, teacher, trainer, mentor, tutor…

With the proper coaching and skill sets for their specific
circumstances, adults in their existing or potential care giving journey can
gain:

  • confidence
  • clarity
  • answers to questions
  • options
  • wins

I am sure you realize, every family is different and has
different problems and needs.  I
want to give you a sampling of what an elderly parent care coach can do for you,
or teach you to do:

1) Explain and
answer medical condition questions, assist in formulating questions for
physicians and help to interpret the responses.

2) Offer
instructions in how to effectively communicate with different health care
professionals and how to advocate for your parent.

3) Identify
options for medication management, transportation needs, social needs.

4) Communicate
with parents to achieve different outcomes.

5) Teach home
safety tips and other check lists.

6) Teach crisis
prevention skills, thereby avoiding some hospitalizations.

7) Determine ways
to manage care from a distance, and locate referrals with specific expertise.

I want to conclude with a summary of a story of how a well
informed, confident, guided caregiver gained a big win. I will call this woman Dora, and her loved one Bob. Bob
had been diagnosed a few years ago with dementia and was told how the disease
would progress. Over time as Bob digressed physically and mentally, Dora chose
to be well informed and begin to conduct research on her own…talked to others
caring for loved ones in a similar situation…consulted with other
professionals.  Through her
connections, she ultimately learned about NPH (Normal Pressure Hydrocephalus).
Basically this is "water on the brain", and leads to brain swelling.
One of the symptoms required to be diagnosed with NPH is a change in walking
pattern to the feet being wider apart, shuffling, and unsteadiness. This can
also be a characteristic in people with progressive dementia. 

Dora ultimately convinced the doctor to test Bob for NPH,
which was positive, and he underwent surgery for NPH. Following a brief period,
his gait improved drastically. Dora and Bob are thankful and hopeful that some
of his memory loss will also improve. 

I caution the readers that many medical facts and details
are omitted in this story. This scenario does not apply to everyone with the
same symptoms. For more details on NPH, refer to: http://www.nlm.nih.gov/.

My point is evident however. In this real story, Dora gained
new skills, new knowledge, confidence to make changes in the care of her loved
one, which generated some remarkable results. 

I encourage you
to evaluate your care giving experience and consider who is watching your model
or pattern. Make a choice to create an elderly parent care process that leaves a
desired and duplicable pattern for those watching.

To meet Rhonda Caudell and learn more, click this link:www.endlesslegacy.com/elderparentcoach


Source: http://anthonyssong.blogspot.com/2013/06/elderly-parent-care-coach-helps-adult.html


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