Married or not… you should read this.

We all care about our liberties, our independence, demand respect for our privacy, we we don’t thing we should be nannied or controlle. And yet, there are scenes like this all over the world all the time. We’ve become to permissive, we are taught to open up our minds, to our possibilities, our full potential for happiness and success. You can’t achieve those without establishing tight boundaries, secured borders, tall gates, otherwise, at the end, as we look back at the aftermath of life and the decisions we’ve made to see the shattered pieces and broken foundations in the lives we’ve left for ourselves and others.

It begins so innocently by sitting close to a certain someone at work, make too many water cooler visits, allowing the brush of the hand, email exchanges, returning lingering glances. The excitement of a new love experience is overwhelming, especially to a person trapped in a rut of his everyday life. When affairs begin, all that matters is our own pleasures and needs. It is very hard to consider the impact a divorce would have on your spouse and the devastation on her life.

Jesus Christ hated divorce, even though, at that time, divorce was fairly popular. Jesus compared divorce to separating water from milk in its liquid state. Once those have been put together, they cannot be separated. There is a very deep and spiritual component to marriage and sex. It must be brought together and maintained by the True Holy Spirit. Woman was taken from Adam’s rib and she gave her flesh back to him, in ia sexual union, where a man and woman truly unite in the flesh as one. She bears his children, with the structure of life each had given to create the miracle of conception.

People neglect and waste so many precious, sacred aspects of life. It was never taught to them to begin with, they never bothered to take the time to think about it. So many gifts given by God are ofter torn apart and thrown in the trash. And, we stroll along to the next marriage. That, may end up being a disappointment as well, after the shine of it wears away.

There are such stupid women all over the place. I work with a woman with three children, all by separate men. She never married any of them because her mom told her they were highly unsuitable types for husbands. So, why did the stupid woman spread her legs for these abject losers? That’s the new standard for family I guess.