11 Kinky Sex Toys to Spice Up Your Love Life

Sex is the ultimate expression of the intimate bond built between two people.

Unfortunately, though, sometimes this physical pleasure loses its intimacy. This happens when couples stop having sex regularly, or when their sex just doesn’t feel as good as it used to. It may also be because one person feels like they’ve lost a bit of their sexiness.

Thankfully, there are ways to bring the fire back into the bedroom.

One of the best methods to do so is with the use of kinky sex toys. When what you usually do is no longer good enough, here are some toys to consider trying out together.

1. A Remote Controlled Vibrator

Vibrators are some of the most well-known sex toys out there, to the point that not many people would expect to see them on a list of kinky sex toys. But, even this classic intimacy tool can be spiced up a bit.

Such is the case with a remote controlled vibrator. Using a remote completely changes the game. It allows your partner to stimulate your senses with a variety of settings, meanwhile, they’re doing a few tricks themselves to keep your fire burning.

2. A Mini Vibrator

Speaking of making vibrators sexier than they already are, consider buying a mini vibrator. What’s the point of that? To take it on the go, of course.

This may not scream “kinky sex toys” – that is until you’re whipping it out to have sex in a scandalous place. This adds a whole new level of excitement to the rush of being together, especially if that rush has dwindled lately.

Just be sure to communicate what you are and aren’t comfortable with as far as public settings go. Also, maybe think of an escape plan if you’re planning a particularly risque place!

3. Blindfolds

What if you’d rather stay home and bring your fire back while focusing on the basics? That’s perfectly fine, but a few kinky sex toys can still heighten the experience.

If you don’t want to go too “out-there” with your kinky ideas, start with a blindfold.

Sometimes, the reason you lose interest while having sex is that you already know what your partner is going to do next. But, by encouraging a change of routine and giving up your sight for a while, you create room for your senses to be totally surprised – and more sensitive to each intimate sensation.

4. Bondage Tape

To take your ideas of kinky sex toys one step further, try using bondage tape.

This opens a whole new world of being together. Encourage your partner to tie you up with your hands behind your back, or face down with your hands below you. You won’t be able to avoid the way they stimulate your body, which might be just what both of you need to enjoy each other all over again.

Bondage tape also works to tie you up. Or, put a piece over your mouth if you’re worried about noise.

5. Cotton Ropes

The only catch about buying a roll of bondage tape is that, if you really enjoy the experience, you’re going to end up having to buy more. Investing in a pair of cotton ropes, though, means the fun with kinky sex toys can go on indefinitely.

You may think this is the same thing as buying a regular piece of rope. Not at all – most ropes will feel too rough on the skin and leave scarring or rashes. Cotton ropes, made for special situations, won’t hurt.

These provide all the excitement you and yours are looking for, without going over the top and actually hurting you.

6. A Restraint Kit

To get the absolute best bondage experience, go all-out. Stop with the amateur play of bondage tape or ropes and get a restraint kit for your bed.

After all, you want to see what kinky sex toys are all about, right?

This is something that’s easy to set up on your mattress and to hide when you don’t want it exposed. But, when the lights go low and the fire starts to build, you can easily bring the restraint kit out to play.

The kit is meant to tie each limb on a corner of the bed. It spreads your arms and legs wide to let your partner take control from various angles. Think of this kind of like the blindfold experience – your senses won’t know what hit them as the excitement of the moment and the love-making skills of your partner take control.

7. An Over-the-Door Bondage Kit

Having fun with your restraint kit, but interested in seeing how far these kinds of kinky sex toys can go? Buy yourself a kit that hangs over the door.

This is like a sex swing and a tied-up sex trick in one. Such kits attach to the frame of your door for ultimate support. You sit in them with your legs open wide, and the freedom to move your arms as you’d like, or to tie them up above your head.

Once in position, it’s up to your partner to see what happens next. The swing allows you to try different angles and positions together, which just aren’t as easy to do in the bed. Not to mention, they are way more fun with this approach.

8. A Choker

As great as various bondage and submission kits are, the accessories tend to focus on your major limbs – as in the arms and legs. There isn’t really anything included for those who like to be choked or controlled a little bit more than most people do.

For that, you might as well get an actual sex choker.

This is one of the ultimate kinky sex toys you can buy. Chokers work for a multitude of positions and styles of sex. You can use them in foreplay as a way to get the heat going, then go into a slower, more intimate rhythm.

Plus, this bedroom accessory is applicable for all kinds of sexual orientations. Whether your partner is the same sex or the opposite, you can find plenty of ways to use this little toy together.

9. Nipple Clips

Another fun idea that’s easy to incorporate into various sexual settings is a pair of nipple clips. Guy or girl, the nipples are an extremely sensitive area. When biting and subtle stimulation isn’t enough, turn things up a notch with clips.

Be mindful of how much pressure you apply and have a way to tell your partner if they’re doing too much. But, once you get it just right, these can be an incredible way to amp up the sexual experience.

Nipple clips provide a stimulation that you just can’t get otherwise. They focus right on the spot that counts, without hurting the sensitive skin around this part of the body. If you and your partner are particularly creative, you can attempt to use them elsewhere, too.

10. Low-Temperature Drip Candles

While pain and submission are some couple’s cup of tea, there are other ways to get kinky and bring back the fire into the bedroom. Sometimes, it’s with actual fire!

Have you ever heard of couples using wax as a sex toy?

These are oftentimes partners who have been together for quite some time and have a clear sexual understanding and sense of trust. After all, the use of real wax is a fine line between being kind of hot in bed and actually burning each other with something that’s too hot for the skin.

There’s a solution, though. If you really want to see what bringing candles in the bedroom is all about, get low-temperature drip candles. These are specifically made to encourage the flame between you and yours.

Such candles are thin, tall strips of wax that burn slow, at a much lower heat than regular candles. Think of them like the wax used to get your eyebrows or bikini line done. But, using this wax feels way better than cleaning yourself up at a salon.

It’s all about feeling sexy and seducing one another in a unique, intimate way. Who knows, these candles may even encourage enough fire between the two of you for someone to get down on one knee!

11. A Strap-On Kit

Sometimes you want to take things slow and be intimate, and other times, you may be in the mood to try something that’s completely unknown to either of you. That’s when a strap-on enters the bedroom.

Strap-ons are often used between gay couples. But, there’s a way to make them sexy and effective kinky sex toys for heterosexual pairs, too.

First things first, though, no matter what kind of relationship you’re in, you have to find the right strap-on for you. Some will have a max waist size, while others will be easy to adjust. Not to mention, the size of what’s actually strapped on matters, too.

For a fun little parody of what a strap-on kit is, check out the whizzinator. This is a tool that has nothing to do with foreplay or sexy time – rather, it’s an awesome, genius thing to have handy for your next drug test.

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