Conflict Thesaurus Entry: A Partner Being Unwilling to Commit
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Conflict: A Partner Being Unwilling to Commit
Category: Power struggles, relationship friction
Examples:
A significant other who doesn’t want to get married
A partner who doesn’t want to move in together
Refusing to call the relationship exclusive even though there is no one else
Minor Complications:
Arguments and friction in the relationship
Having two of everything (two homes, two beds, two closets, etc.)
Awkward questions from family and friends
Being judged or talked about by those outside the relationship
“Bleeding money” because finances and assets are not consolidated
Potentially Disastrous Results:
An ultimatum being delivered
A partner leaving the relationship
A partner looking elsewhere for the commitment they desire (engaging in emotional cheating or an affair)
A rival moving in out of the belief that the relationship isn’t serious
A pregnancy forcing the issue or upping the ante
Possible Internal Struggles (Inner Conflict):
Loving someone yet hating the part of them that can’t commit
Feeling like they are defective yet knowing the commitment issues lie in the partner’s painful past
Feelings of self-doubt; soul searching as to whether they are making a mistake by staying in the relationship
Wanting marriage and a family but being unsure if their partner will ever “get there”
People Who Could Be Negatively Affected: The character and their partner, any children in the mix if commitment issues spill over into the child’s life
Resulting Emotions: bitterness, conflicted, confusion, contempt, defeat, desire, determination, disappointment, frustration, hopefulness, hurt, insecurity, longing, neglected, powerlessness, resignation, self-pity, unappreciated, vulnerability, wistful
Personality Flaws that May Make the Situation Worse: confrontational, insecure, jealous, martyr, needy, possessive, selfish, uncommunicative, withdrawn, worrywart
Positive Outcomes:
A resistance to commit also means not committing too early, especially if the couple is missmatched
Being unable to commit may cause friction that will lead the character to search within for reasons as to why, hopefully leading to personal growth and being able to let go of the past
If you’re interested in other conflict options, you can find them here.
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