"Raise Your Love Signal" book by Chantal Landreville ("Human Connections" expert)

Hello again all. This is going to be another quasi CHEAT (no pun intended, and probably “unfortunate” word-choice in a piece about LOVE/Relationships) article, taking a bit of a short-cut. I just spoke with Chantal Landreville about her book “Raise Your Love Signal” officially dropping Valentine’s Day (Feb. 14th 2024) but available now for PreSale now and I wanted to share the discussion with you – therefore, “cheating” rather than writing a piece completely from scratch I will include the Show Video and the Show Transcript (and FYI, I use a FREE online Transcription Service (you get what you pay for, right?) therefore the Transcript is likely to have potentially bad sentence structure, some wrong words, mis-spellings, etc.; as AI is pretty good, I know well as a former IT guy that I am, but not perfect at grasping overall Context in order to interpret the correct verbiage vocalized translated (plus we sometimes are not “clear” in our speaking and pronunciation of terms/words for the Machinery to distinguish it) to text; but it is GREAT at being able to share a Conversation in print and therefore sharing (as is, well, not entirely true, I do indeed make some changes, additions, etc.) below…

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S1EFebSpecial#1 SHOW NOTES ( listen (Wed Feb 7 2024 and thereafter) at: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2210487/14459573-christitutionalist-politics-s1efebspecial-1-human-connection-valentine-special )… 
ChristiTutionalist Politics (S1EFebSpecial#1) “Human Connection – Valentine Special”
No, not discussing “Valentines Day Massacre” LOL. I Welcome Chantal Landreville to the Show to discuss her forthcoming book (Pre-Sales on now) that is dropping on Valentine’s Day (Feb. 14th 2024) titled: “Raise Your Love Signal.” As a “play” (as I propose, yes LOVE/Valentines Marriage/Fiancee’ pun intended, in this episode) on the traditional “Sweets/Treats for your Sweet” (variation on the “Box of Chocolate in the Heart shaped box” and more interactive/shared) indeed “Sweet” or “cheap” to share a Banana-Split (one dish, two spoons) at the Sweet-Shop for Valentine’s Day Dessert? Is it “nice tradition” or “unimaginative and lame” these days?!?! External Beauty (which is indeed in “eye of the beholder”) is wonderful, but internal Beauty (Content of Character) is the best foundation for a long-term solid/sound/lasting Relationship. The Tale of the two Emma’s. More…
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- https://raiseyourlovesignal.com/  
- https://www.facebook.com/holycowcreamerywyandotte/ 
- The need to be “Healthy” Physically and Emotionally: https://WebMD.com  
- No corresponding TLB Article this coming Sat, see related B4IN (BeforeItsNews) pieces…   
- /books/2024/02/raise-your-love-signal-book-by-chantal-landreville-human-connections-expert-2556087.html
- https://www.thelibertybeacon.com/the-need-to-keep-a-sense-of-humor/
- /christian-news/2023/11/your-christitutionalist-politics-awakening-2619081.html  
- /christian-news/2024/01/christitutionalist-politics-2-2620304.html  
- https://www.buzzsprout.com/2210487/14103337-christitutionalist-politics-s1edecspecial-dating-in-this-woke-day-and-age  
- /republican/2023/12/leftist-indoctrination-making-a-major-impact-on-the-dating-scene-in-these-woke-times-2445165.html  
- /market-research-reports/2024/01/can-one-generalize-about-women-voters-194494.html 

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Welcome to ChristiTutionalist Politics podcast aka CTP in association with TheLibertyBeacon.com and I am your host Joseph M Lenard and that’s L E N A R D   CTP is your no muss no fuss just me you And occasional guest type podcast as Graham Norton would say let’s get on with the show 

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Hello everybody. Welcome to another special version of christitutionalist politics podcast. Normally politics were not dealing in politics Today. Today, we’re dealing in affairs of the heart and human connection. A Valentine month special, we’re not going to drop right on Valentine’s Day, we’re going to drop early. And joining me is Chantel, although it’s spelled C-H-A-N-T-A-L, not an E in there. And it’s C-H, not S-H, C-H-A-N-T-A-L, important of course, since we’re going to be talking about your book. We want them to be able to find you on DuckDuckGo, GIBIRU, and/or FreeSpoke, Search-Engines, and all that. And it’s Landreville. What’s the proper pronunciation

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  French pronunciation? Well, you said it pretty good. Chantel Landreville, if you want me to do

JOSEPH M LENARD:  the French thing. But you said it really beautifully, and thank you. Well, I’m and again, and it’s spelled L-A-N-D-R-E-V-I-L-L-E, because I already caught myself in my notes writing Landerville. So we, again, we want to make sure people, and I’m sensitive to pronunciation because my last name Leonard, without an O, people look at it and assume French, Leonard. Yeah, so I get all that. We want to make sure they’ve got your names. But anyway, you’re here because you’re an expert on the Valentine’s

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  Day Massacre, right? Oh, yeah. Yes, the massacre. The Valentine’s Day Massacre, right?

JOSEPH M LENARD:  No, that is not what this Valentine’s special for February is about. Chantel is known as a human connection expert, and we’ll be talking about that and her upcoming book that’s dropping on the 14th pre-sales now, and we’ll get into all that in a minute. But first, for those viewing on, I’ve got a silly question. Well, it’s half tongue-in-cheek, hack-serious question that I’m dying to ask for. For those viewing on the behind-the-scenes video cast, you could see because yes, in these specials, I do worry about my wardrobe. What should I wear that’s appropriate for this episode? And you might see I’m wearing my Holy Cow Creamery shirt, which is the local sweet shop. Well, Valentine’s Day, right? Suites for your sweets, right? I love it. Normally, it’s traditionally the box of chocolate in the red heart, but I’m wondering, and if you’re ever in Windout, Michigan, please head up to North Line and go to see Tyler and the crew at Holy Cow Creamery. I always order a root beer alamode, and for those who don’t get it, that’s a root beer float.

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  Wow, your way of saying it is much better. You just told it to me.

JOSEPH M LENARD:  That’s our inside joke. I always joke with Tyler that he should change the name of it on the availability board to root beer alamode because it sounds so much fancier. He could charge more,

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  right? Excuse me. Yeah, exactly. I totally agree with you. Bless you. Bless you. Thank you. Thank you.

JOSEPH M LENARD:  As any right, my question is then why I’m wearing the Holy Cow Creamery shirt as a prop. Is it cheap or sweet to take your sweet to your local sweet shop and share a banana split?

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  Oh, that’s cute. I actually like that. I think it’s sweet. Okay, that’s good. Some, I think,

JOSEPH M LENARD:  might think, I want to keep bastard, but that’s a it’s like share. I like the idea that you said

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  sharing where you’re like putting, taking ordering one and sharing two spoons and sitting down. It’s like a connection time, and we often tend to make it it has to be big, but sometimes it’s the little

JOSEPH M LENARD:  things that matter the most. That’s right. That’s the way I see it. I’m an old romantic, but again, I mean, I’ve been out of the dating market for decades, so I might be considered an old fart rather than old fashioned, you know, now the traditionalist, but an old foggy at any rate. Give us an explanation first, what a human connection expert would be. I guess that’s an

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  obvious first question. Yes, actually, I love that question. And well, so people can also understand I’m a certified love and relationship coach, but through my journey getting here, I used to be in sales all of my life. I worked in fashion. I worked in the wine business for over 20 years, and the talent I discovered that I had was a really great active listening skills. And when you are listening to people and curious about people, people will definitely confide extremely well within you. So I really, really thrive because I’m a natural, curious, and I love people. I love to understand where you’re from, how where, you know, the journey of your life. I’m just really, really fascinated. So a human connector for me is having interest and getting to know someone and being curious about it, right? We’re so disconnected right now from human connection, especially since COVID. So I’ve seen the results of what human connection can actually create, and whether that’s at home in your, you know, marriage and your romantic relationship at work with your friends and your family, it’s a huge difference. So human connector for me is building relationships with people. I love connecting people with the right people when I feel it’s time. I have this innate instinct of when I need to introduce a person to another that also involves

JOSEPH M LENARD:  matchmaking. You mentioned the Wuhan virus, so obviously the lockdown. So human connections or the lack thereof. Yes. And my concern is not so much for us as adults, what it did to our children, but that’s not what we’re here to discuss. Yeah, I mean, social interaction, we are discussing and the importance of that our children developing social skills in their early formative years is important. But let’s get to the book, the serious question at hand. And first, let’s have you grab a copy and hold it up close to the camera. There it is. What is it? It is called raise your love signal. Yes. I’ve got to write that down because I hadn’t wrote that down yet,

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  written it down yet, wrote that down, write that down, write that down, write that down, raise your love signal. And it’s a guide to attracting and keeping the love of your life. Because when we are on the journey to love and we’re looking for love, it’s literally what we want. We want to be able
JOSEPH M LENARD:  to keep and sustain our relationship, right? Yeah. Now, again, we we’ve hinted at this is going to drop officially on Valentine’s Day 2024. But presales are available now where?

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  So if you, I’m sure you’ll put it in the show notes, but on my website, www.raiseyourlovesignal. So we only have one thing to remember, title of the book, title of the website, you will get a pop-up right there where it’s a pre-order link. So it’s available obviously on amazon.com, Barnes and Nobles, Kindle. So all the links will be there accessible for you and you can go pick

JOSEPH M LENARD:  the one you prefer. Okay. Now that’s raiseyourlovesignal.com.com. Okay. Dot com. Yes. Yeah. Mine is a dot info for my book because unfortunately, and I still haven’t checked, they were supposed to the internet people. I’m a former IT guy. They’ve been promising a dot book extension for years. I don’t know if they finally ever got around to it, but we need a dot book extension. It may be obvious, right? Exactly. I agree. You’re looking for a book, you would think dot book would be a but you we need to get on them. There’s a probably be an obvious answer, but I’ve got to ask the obvious question then. Why this book? It’s not such an obvious question actually or answer either.

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  So why this book? So through my own personal journey, I was single for almost just a little under 18 years constantly struggling, not able to well, I would say always attracting unavailable, emotionally unavailable partners. And you know, I would hear things like, well, maybe you’re too intimidating or you’re not too this or you’re too much of that. So I really started questioning who I was and what was wrong with me. And that did not take me to necessarily a great place because I started diminishing who I was and trying to tone down my personality, which you know what, why do we want to be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t accept us? So when I kept on hearing maybe you’re too picky, you’re too demanding, you know, you start questioning yourself, well, maybe I am. And through those 18 years, the one thing that saved me was that I was always as my curiosity about people and trying to understand who they are and connect with them. I had a massive passion for learning all things self development, like massive. There’s not much that I didn’t see, try, explore, do name it the book, the conference, the speaker, Tantra, ayahuasca plant medicine, like name it, I’ve tried it and done it. So when I actually found my amazing partner now we’ve been together for five years, I realized three things. One was that, you know, it’s already super hard to put yourself out there and attract the right partner. Two is that we’ve never been taught the skills on how to actually be in relationships. So you can actually find the right partner and not be equipped to succeed in your relationship long term. So, and number three, I realized, oh my God, I have all this knowledge, everything I’ve learned, and I’ve been able to apply it to my own relationship and to myself, and I’ve seen the results. I’ve seen the results. So the book is literally every, the best of everything I’ve learned over the last 20 years and the hundreds of thousands of dollars that cost me all in one place.

JOSEPH M LENARD:  We get to buy your expertise. That’s good. Thank you. I am indeed a cheap skate going back to the banana split idea. I am indeed a cheap skate. So that’s good. I don’t want to have to pay thousands of dollars for the advice. But you mentioned intimidation. I think it’s more a male self-esteem issue that they feel intimidated by beautiful women because I’ve heard this in interviews of models, saying they have a tough time at times on the dating scene because that word, they feel others are intimidated by their beauty and their status because they’re seen on magazines or wherever as a model. So people just assume, oh, well, you know, they’re dating some rich guy, which may or may not be the case. They may be available and indeed looking, but it’s the male low esteem issue that’s more than because for those looking on video, you’re certainly not some Buddhist manish kind of intimidating person. You’ve started answered this already. What’s in the book? Do you want to give maybe chapter titles of one or two or?

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  Well, I’ll make it easy for you. And before I answer that question, I would just love to touch back on what you said where men sometimes can struggle. But I want women and men to understand that if you are threatened or feel insecure in any way and intimidated by someone’s beauty, because it could happen, I remember being attracted to these really hot men that was like, oh, he would never date me ever. And it actually happened to me once in my dating journey that I met this amazing hot model guy that wasn’t to me because of my personality, not because of my looks. So one of the things that I circle back to what I talk about in the book, one of the things I talk about a lot is self love and your self worth. This is something for us to succeed in any given relationship. We have to really own our own worth and raise what we do have, right? Instead of focusing on, I’m not good enough. I don’t have this. I don’t have that. And this was something that I learned very late in life. And I wish I would have learned it young because when I was going through that cycle, my God, I remember so many nights crying myself to sleep because I didn’t think I was pretty enough that I was skinny enough that I was crazy. But here I am. I had this massive great personality, very knowledge. I had other assets. So I would invite people if you feel that way, threaten any way, work on yourself, worth and yourself love because it’s super important. You have no idea what the other person is looking for in front of you. And you know, looks is one thing, but maybe people are actually attracted to personality and good brains and you know, knowledge of the world and politics or whatever it may be. So the book is actually divided in three love lessons. I’ve divided in three love lessons. So the first one is your want. Your want. I love this because most people when they’re looking for love, I asked them, do you actually know what you want? Everybody says yes. And I’m like, okay, let’s hear it. Let’s describe it. And it’s very vague and funny enough too. It’s like everybody has the same wants of what they want out of a relationship and a partner. So I really dive deep into this because when we are looking for love, we often make it about the partner. I want him to be successful. I want her to be a great cook. I want him to be financially well off. I want her to be a great dancer, whatever, very, very self-absorbed and very superficial. But we never think about how do we want to grow and evolve in our relationship. What are the core values that I need to make sure that I can, once the fire is out and this honeymoon phase, how do I make sure I’m taking care of in my relationship? How do I want to be treated when we go through an argument? How do I want to raise my kids with this person? And it’s crazy how, you know, I would say the average person does not take the time to really go through that thought process. And when you’ve been on the dating journey and you’re not succeeding, this is a really great exercise to help you avoid dating burnout and not get trapped or blindsided with poor quality dates because you get wiser, you filter better, and you’re not afraid to stick to what you’re looking for. Love lesson number two is all about what I just mentioned before, self-love, worth understanding why you are the way you are because, you know, when we show up in relationship the way we do or not, and we’ve had these patterns or beliefs, so for example, in my case, I kept attracting unemotional available people, I had to look hard at myself and understand why am I doing this? So, and all of these things are rooted to childhood because our first example of love are our parents and whether they were good, whether they were bad, whether they were there, whether they were not, this is the root of why you have become who you are in adult life. And all of this has already decided for you before you hit the age of six, which is pretty crazy. So, it’s really important to understand that part. It’s a little bit more intense in the book, but it also like gives you so much insight on who you are today and why you show up the way you do. And love lesson number three is all the ABCs of helping you through your dating journey, the to-dos, the nod, and some really, really great advice on how to navigate through it. And also, the fundamentals you need to learn before going into your relationship, ideally, things you need to put into place and practice before you go into your relationship, and things that you actually need if you want to sustain a long-term, healthy, committed relationship. So, it’s literally a to z. It’s not just ABC. So, wherever you are in your dating journey, you have something to learn. And that’s why I call it a guide because it’s a short book. I wanted to create something that was easy to read, great storytelling, also a little funny. You love a great sense of humor as I. And I think that when we’re talking about difficult topics like this, it’s nice to be able to laugh about ourselves and laugh about the situation. Humor is a great healer. And sometimes, we think we know it all, but we forget. I fall off the wagon all the time in my own relationship. So, this book is a really great way for me to, oh, yeah, I need to, you know, I stop doing this. I need to get back on the bandwagon and start, you know, practicing what I teach all the time I catch myself. 

JOSEPH M LENARD: Three things I think you kind of brought up. I want to touch back on. You mentioned the honeymoon period. Now, obviously, when a relationship is fresh and new, we generally look through rose colored glasses and or unfortunately, project what we hope and want from a person rather than see maybe what they really are. And that can be a danger. I don’t want to dwell on that though, but beauty, if you go back to is indeed in the eye of the holder. I mean, it’s open to interpretation. And there is someone for everyone, whether you think you’re beautiful or not is not relevant. It’s how others perceive you. And I like, you know, what people think beauty to think, Oh, drop dead gorgeous models, right? But no, I like to say the story or the tale of two emmas. All right, because I like to think beauty has different categories. Drop dead gorgeous. And again, I like to use the tale of two emmas, Emma Stone and Emma Watson. Because a whole lot of different people, of course, including me, think they’re both beautiful in their own unique and different way. Emma Stone, now, you look at her and not to be insulting. I’d say this tongue and cheek. She’s got the gray alien, big eye look, you know, but she’s what I call, or part of my microphone fell off. The his filter fell off. Hopefully, it will be okay. But Emma Stone with those big eyes, she’s got not that exact symmetrical type beauty that science would categorize as drop dead gorgeous. I call her intriguing beauty. Yeah. Emma Watson, she’s got the short hair, I think still, the perpetual, youthful, cute look. Yeah, I call it terminally cute. Yeah, terminally cute. I like that. Right. So there are different categories of beauty. And you fit, no matter what you think about yourself, you fit into one of them. It’s just, you know, because the third thing Martin Luther King, Jr., content of character and not judging a book by its cover, right? Yeah. We often are attracted based on appearance at first, what a lasting relationship has to be built on, understanding, giving to know, and meshing

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  content of each other’s character. Absolutely. Absolutely. Because beauty is, you know, it’s just one thing. So beauty shows up in many different ways. And it’s not just physical. It’s it’s who the person is. In our beauty. Inside. Yeah. Absolutely. I mean, I’m sure you can relate to this. You know, you’ll go to a party or you’re attending a networking event and there’s a person that comes in and just like, you’re just like drawn to them because of their magnetic energy, right? They have a lot of charm or they’re funny or, and they’re not even good looking whatsoever. So as we say in French, Chagony has, every rag has its cloth. And that’s the beauty of things. We’re not nobody’s the same. So we’re not attracted to all the same things. And I think what I’ve loved about the last couple years, especially with social media, and we’re seeing it in the, I go back to like the fashion world of models, we’re seeing all kinds of different shapes, size and foot like the beauty has been really expanded to, you know, A, B or C. So, and I, I love that because it just goes to show how, you know, you can, you can be very different and not

JOSEPH M LENARD:  have to fit in into a specific category. This is kind of now off topic, but not. I mean regarding beauty. I think there is an issue and of the expansion of beauty, right? You like you’re talking about the different alternative. I will say models on covers, right? Now, I think there is a danger, however, and a difference between, yeah, heavier is still beautiful, but, and I’m not, I don’t want to be insulting. I’m not trying to fat shame, but people’s health is a concern. And this is where I’m getting off topic. The fat normalization. Oh, now I don’t want to say that. That can be beautiful, right? Heavier can be beautiful. Yeah, let’s use heavier. The normalization of obesity is what worries me. Yeah, I totally agree. Lizzo may be a wonderfully talented musician, but the normalization of her size and making her a role model over that worries me a little, but again, I don’t really want to dwell or go down that road with you. No, let’s focus on what we have. We’re scheduled to talk to you about. At any rate, my verbal crutch that I’ve developed lately as my segue. At any rate, the obvious question that I will ask anyway, just to be able to get back to the book, why this release date? Duh, but I’m asking anyway. Well, you know, and you know this,

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  because you’ve written a book and the author’s journey. I mean, it’s really hard being an author today. It’s not what it used to be 20, 30 years ago. And you really have to distinct yourself, because you’re a reindrop amongst all the other in that falls. So I was trying to be strategic in the timing. I could release it. And when I thought about Valentine’s Day, it’s a holiday that I have a love hate relationship with. And you’re going to love this because you talked about massacre, but I remember being single and, you know, again, kicking and screaming, I can’t wait to be in a relationship to celebrate this holiday and just feeling all the shame and the guilt of being by myself and single. But I’ve never not celebrated Valentine’s Day as much since I’ve been in my relationship because my relationship with Valentine’s Day and the perception I had of it has completely changed. It’s the day of love. And it’s not romantic love. It’s so many kinds of difference of love. And I think we forget what that means because it’s kind of like the holidays, right? Just social media media has like overextended and puts all this pressure and things that we need to do so it creates so much expectations. We’re really forgetting the meaning behind it, which is celebrating love where holidays is celebrating people you love coming together and celebrating together. So Valentine’s Day for me was a natural thing because I wanted to what a better way to obviously release a book about love, my journey, and my journey to love was not only with my romantic partner, it was a massive part was with myself. And when I asked people to define what love means to them, the one thing that I realized even as I was doing the research and my coffee table talks with men and women to get to see what they needed and wanted was love was always about other people. It was never about themselves. Never did I hear self love, which was really interesting to me. And my journey finding love has also been a big part of it. The success of my relationship today is the relationship I have to myself and the love that I give myself. So I think that’s why

JOSEPH M LENARD:  it was important for me to really sit on that. It’s hard to be able to give yourself in a physical and emotional aspects and respects. If you don’t first at least, if not fully love yourself at least respect yourself. And I’m glad I asked what I thought might be a silly question because that was a great, great answer. And indeed, I mean, Valentine’s Day, right, we get caught up in the secularists of it and the commercialism of it. It’s why some people don’t like Christmas these days, right? We’ve gotten so commercialized and the pressure on the gift giving aspect as opposed to the being there to share in the love with each other. And this being a Christian program of love with and of God, of course. Yes. So I guess it wasn’t such a stupid question after all. Yay.

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  Zero. Zero. No questions are stupid. No questions are ever stupid.

JOSEPH M LENARD:  To start to wrap things up and close things out. If you were to have me ask the question, I’ve not asked yet, what would that question and answer be?

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  Oh, that’s a good one. I would ask why are people struggling so much today in either finding love or staying in a relationship? You want to ask me or you want me to answer my own question?

JOSEPH M LENARD:  Go ahead and yeah. Okay. It gets rhetorical now. Well, not rhetorical. That’s the wrong word, but yeah. It’s on the table now. doing,

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE: So one thing I realized as I was  writing the book and through again, my own personal journey, I realized that we have this misconception about what love really means. We’ve been so rom-com and Disney-ified about love. So we have this fantasy. We are in love with the idea of being in love. But that kind of love is not enough and it won’t help you in a long-term healthy committed relationship with the ups and downs of life, with kids, financial, bullshit happening, whatever. It’s just part of my language. All of that good stuff, right? So I would invite people to really think about what is my relationship to love and what do I want my relationship with love to be? Because I realized that doing exactly what I just described, all my life never worked out for me. So when I started dating my boyfriend, one of the things that I had decided was to do things very, very differently. One of them was showing up like my truest-handic self, not pretending to be someone I wasn’t, not trying to hide someone, you know, things that flaws or pretending to like things that I did because I really wanted to be liked or I was, you know, and-

JOSEPH M LENARD:  And only hurts you in the long run if you’re not honest with yourself and the other person, right?

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  Yes, exactly. And knowing what I wanted my relationship with love to be really transformed how I was going about dating. I was more, it wasn’t about the butterflies and the passion and the lust. It was more about getting to know someone and building a strong foundation and seeing how that person would show up with the value system that I had, you know, identified that I was looking for. So let’s say for you, you know, you ask yourself that question and what does love mean to you and love to you means like excitement and joy and butterflies. Well, you’re setting up yourself for failure. You’ll be in constant relationships that, you know, I call that the fire straw where it’s like really, really lights up really quickly and then dies down. If your relationship with love and what you’ve seen, we’re toxic and screaming and like, you know, verbal abuse, for example, well, you’ll attract narcissistic people or, you know, just toxic, toxic partners. If your relationship with love is like always seeing people giving, you’re always giving, giving, giving and not making room to receive, well, that’s going to create an imbalance. So it’s really important to identify what your relationship with love is and what you want it to be. In my case, I wanted safety. I wanted acceptance. I wanted support. I wanted also freedom because I’m a free bird. I travel the world. I, you know, being in the wine business previously to this. I was very socially engaging and, you know, I would walk a room and it was a very male-dominated industry. So I couldn’t be with someone that was insecure or felt threatened in any way that they would just let me do and be who I was and feel safe. So by doing that exercise, I’ve realized for me what true love means is all of these things. It’s safety because it gives me a sense of peace. I can show up and say a stupid thing and not feel that I’m going to be, you know, threatened or the person would leave me. So you really need to think about that and how you want to grow and evolve with this person because beauty is great but it won’t always stay. Money is great but you might not have a partner that’s sticking around to be there for you because they’re working all the time. So there’s so many things that you need to think about. So I just invite people to re-evaluate everything that we’ve been taught about love and when you find a person that has all those high qualities, you can build the fire. That’s what I’ve done and I always say to my poor boyfriend, he’s the guinea pig of my teachings. I’m more in love today in my relationship of five years than I was for the first two years because we’ve built, we’ve invested, we hold each other to high standards and we know it takes work. You know, this morning we were saying we’ve both been working, I’m so crazy busy with the book launch. He’s been working 60 hours a week and I’m like, eh, we need a date. Like, no, this is like, it’s been 10 days that we’re just flying by, seeing each other. So we hold each other to high standards and I need to create the fire. So we both know. So we booked our date night this weekend and I’m going to organize something fun to do the connection time. So but you have to work and invest into the relationship. Most people just get lazy and just wait for their partners to do everything and we have to take ownership ourselves.

JOSEPH M LENARD:  Yeah, I’m glad you said you have. Make sure you go for the banana split after the date. Yes. And I’m glad we have something in common. I too was in the wine industry. That’s why I’m now divorced. My XY says you can see where the joke’s going. I was constantly whining. But I’m just a joke. Just a joke, people. I can never pass on the lame pun. And you know what, like we talked about humor, things are so serious. You’ve got to have a sense of humor and you’ve got to be able to laugh at yourself. I thought you were saying. I thought you were saying. Or you’ve got no business laughing at anybody else. No. We’ve been talking with Chantal Londerville. Yes. And it sounds like there’s an E in there. But it’s C H A N T A L. And the last name is not Landreville Landreville L A N D R E V I L L E. So tell us again, the name of the book and the website with the proper dot extension. So people

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  know where they can find you. Awesome. Thank you. So the web, the name of the book is raise your love signal, a guide to attracting and keeping the love of your life. And that can be found and purchased on my website, www dot raise your love signal.com. You will have a little pop up window that comes up that will take you to all the different links where you can purchase the book online.

JOSEPH M LENARD:  Thank you for joining. This was a lot of fun. I knew it. Didn’t I say in our email back and forth. Yes. Really looking forward to this. I knew this was going to be fun.

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  Yes. I appreciate it. I’m happy that we did this and that you were persistent. Thank you.

JOSEPH M LENARD:  Take care. God bless everyone. God bless them. Definitely. If you’ve not found that love human connection, definitely find it. And if you don’t have it now, don’t be depressed. Your time is coming. Yes. Valentine’s Day can cause depression and some. Your time is coming. As I always say, you don’t know what tomorrow will bring into you. Carpe diemit. Right. Yes. Because today may not be your day tomorrow, next week, next month, next year, baby, all life matters.

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  Hang in there. And celebrate yourself on Valentine’s Day.

JOSEPH M LENARD:  There you go. Yes. Now I’ve got that stupid cat poster in my head. You know, hang in there, baby. Anyway, thank you again. Take care. 

CHANTAL LANDREVILLE:  Thank you. 

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SOME ADDITIONAL ODDS AND ENDS….

A response I made to someone (SMS Texts, back and forth) in regard to their saying my latest CTP Show “BrainDead (well that’s a harsh title LOL) part 1″ (https://www.buzzsprout.com/2210487/14431880-christitutionalist-politics-s1e33-brain-dead-folks-part-1-well-this-is-a-harsh-show-title-lol) was/is “thoughtful”…

Thx for the feedback on BrainDead1 episode (he will be on my Show soon for an already “Listener Feedback” mini-episode in next several weeks (end of February or early March 2024) when he wanted to react and talk about S1E13 “Censorship” Show) I indeed go for “thoughtful” (always, logic and reason and facts) though I have addressed that sometimes I may indeed get HOT/ANIMATED and sound more like raving lunatic (Leftist) at times (while “spirited” in “tone” and action – still using logic/reason/strategy but just a bit more “passionately” delivered (see related https://www.youtube.com/shorts/bc5yiLorRF0 1m YouTube Short on that))! LOL Thankfully those number of Shows are the exceptions and not the Rule. I am always going for “not the same ole talking-point takes of the usual suspect talking-head parrots” (there is Hannity and a million others for the same-ole bs parrot responses (though, not to say, sometimes a particular talking-point oft heard is not worth repeating too, but parroting cannot be one’s ONE TRICK (and sadly too many are just parrots (or One-Trick-Pony, if you prefer) with never any originality — AT ALL, EVER (at least if delivering the same basic “topics” have some reasonable different approach or other “angle” of delivery than same mono-tone talking-head resting face and voice))).

/u-s-politics/2023/12/actual-full-examination-of-the-14th-amendment-youll-not-hear-this-anywhere-else-2610137.html

Rick Walker joined me on my Show awhile back – see:
https://www.buzzsprout.com/2210487/13994568-christitutionalist-politics-s1e22-grey-areas

2023 in review…

https://www.buzzsprout.com/2210487/14116746-christitutionalist-politics-s1e25-year-in-review-part-1

https://www.buzzsprout.com/2210487/14156913-christitutionalist-politics-ctp-s1e26-year-in-review-part-2

CTP (S1E33, 20240203 drop, BTS/SP) “Brain-Dead Folks 1 (that’s a harsh title LOL)” BehindTheScenes/SneakPeek Video

[BRIEF NOTE: There has been, continues to be AN ISSUE with BeforeItsNews of late in embedding Videos that I have filed a Support ticket regarding and still awaiting resolve. Normally, I am able to add several embedded Videos within every piece. For some reason I am limited to only including one as attempting more causes entire HTML code and parts of Articles TO VANISH. So, there will be additional links to Videos. Related Videos that I had hoped to embed throughout are...
"(CTP S1E28) SneakPeek/BTS "Can One 'Generalize' About Women Voters?" (Audio Show drops 20231230)"
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G6mb9cu63HA
or Rumble: https://rumble.com/v43n19c-ctp-s1e28-sneakpeekbts-can-one-generalize-about-women-voters-audio-show-dro.html
"CTP BTS/SP (S1EDecSpecial (MidWeek 12/6/23 drop)) "Dating in these WOKE times" Politics dividing."
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zfn0ZRqO2Ro
Rumble: https://rumble.com/v3z8mij-ctp-btssp-s1edecspecial-midweek-12623-drop-dating-in-this-woke-day-and-age.html
"CTP S1ENov2023Special BTS/SP "Happy Thanksgiving, Merry Christmas""
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nC3UBv1FFhU
Rumble:https://rumble.com/v3wb5r1-ctp-s1enov2023special-btssp-happy-thanksgiving-merry-christmas.html
"CTP S1E25 BTS/SP Video "Year in Review (part 1)" 20231209 Audio podcast drop"
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TeDqy-vIL8A
Rumble: https://rumble.com/v3zxj5a-ctp-s1e25-btssp-video-year-in-review-part-1-20231209-audio-podcast-drop.html
"CTP BTS/SP Video (S1E26) Year in Review (part 2)"
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M_meLOD8yKg
Rumble: https://rumble.com/v40yiix-ctp-btssp-video-s1e26-year-in-review-part-2.html
These Videos are also available via Bitchute and Brighteon @JLenardDetroit channels.
To see my CTP Show "Soundbites" samples - see: https://vimeo.com/jlenardwyandotte 
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