But you look so healthy

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How many of you with asthma problems can relate…..

“But you don’t look sick”, or “Your sats are OK” or “If you’re so sick, how are you able to exercise and do normal things?”
As a person with very severe lung disease who publicly flaunts his fitness achievements, Ive certainly had my share of skeptics and raised eyebrows. But these kinds of knee jerk assumptions are not always accurate. They can be hurtful and sometimes can even affect the kind of medical care you receive.

Case in point, not too long after I completed my first full marathon back in 2006, I had a pretty bad asthma flare and ended up in the hospital. Feeling proud about what I had accomplished through daily exercise, I shared my marathon story with one of the intern doctors who was assigned to me. Rather than congratulating me, he basically accused me of faking my asthma. His words were ” There’s no way you could’ve walked a marathon if you have severe asthma.” I found out later that in my chart he actually wrote, “patient presents with factitious asthma, claims he walked a marathon“. That probably explains why some of the nurses were treating me so strange during the hospitalization. A rumor had spread that my asthma was very mild and probably psychosomatic in nature. I remember some of the medical staff trying to convince me that my breathing difficulties were all in my head and that I had some kind of generalized anxiety disorder. Are you freaking kidding me! And even scarier, this happened at a well respected teaching hospital.

That incident caused me a lot of grief and took over 3 years with lots of letting writing by my pulmonologists to have that false information removed from my medical record.The reality is that these are the kinds of screwy preconceived generalizations that people have about the way sick people should look and behave. And if I want to be completely honest here, there have been times when Ive guilty of the same.

So I guess the message here, is for everyone ( Drs included) be open minded and make sure you have all the facts before passing judgement based on the way a person looks or acts. And in no way do I apologize for my physical achievements or the way I look. I work really hard at it

I love Denise Reich’s take on all this. She nails it perfectly with a wonderful article she wrote titled “Why I wont apologize for having fun while sick” Check it out.

http://breathinstephen.com/