Care and feeding of septic systems

A reader posted the following comment:

“Off topic comment/request: We are moving in 3 weeks to our new-to-us rural house/cabin. Neither my husband nor I have ever before lived in a home with a septic system. I’ve watched YT videos and read a wide variety of contradictory comments about what to do/not to do.

“I would greatly appreciate suggestions from those here with the experience we lack. I’ve purchased a deodorizing container for toilet wipes (can those things be burned?). I’ve read not to use anti-bacterial soap. I need some practical, middle-of-the-road advice (not an absolute ecological purist and I’m not planning on making my own laundry detergent right now).

“The septic tank was cleaned out just last year (by previous one year owner who purchased it from original builder and 24 year owner) and it’s located beneath a small, rock-lined pond (formerly filled with Koi) so we really hope not to need to do this again any time soon. Any reasonable suggestions greatly appreciated.”

One reader already chimed in with her two cents’ worth:

“At 86, I have owned 4 homes. Three of them on septic. My current home is one of them. “Pro’s” for septic are many. No sewer charge and independence from city for service are the greatest. “Cons” are more in the caution area. Remember that everything liquid in your house goes through septic. That includes washer, dish washer, bathroom sinks, disposal, etc. Don’t flush Kleenex type products as they tend to float rather than dissolve. No or very little antibacterial products as they will kill your good bacteria. Good bye Clorox. Learn to check for “safe for septic” in the fine print. Depending on the size of your family, cleaning every 3-5 years is the rule. Living alone, I don’t think I will ever have to have it pumped out again. Good luck and relax. It’s no big deal. – Julia”

C’mon, folks, let’s help this reader out. Chime in with your experience and expertise on the care and feeding of septic systems. One … two … three … GO!